Thanks ladies! It's such a shame to hear that others are having the same problems, but at least you all know where I'm coming from!
Camarinadoo, I hope that things turn out differently for you. At least you sound like you have a great husband who is willing to stand up to the ILs with you.
Lilybelle, I think we must have twins seperated at birth for MILs! I count my blessings that we live near enough that she doesn't have to stay for days at a time, I think I would go mad if she were here for four days! My MIL doesn't know about our co-sleeping arrangement (it is SO much easier when bfing), it's bad enough that when she was here once she went into our bedroom and came back freaking out "HOW CAN YOU LET HIM SLEEP LIKE THAT?!" ...He's laying on top of a fitted sheet, come on. Also, you were doing exactly what in my bedroom?
ChillyWilly, I completely understand wanting to move! We're a half hour away, so I would reccomend slightly further than that