How ever did I miss this thread?? I'm afraid my gripes aren't really humorous, I'm pretty sour.
Both of my inlaws drive me nuts. I think really most of it is the situation me and DH are in. He has been a carer for his mom for 8 years - she has a degenerative disease that includes balance issues. Its not uncommon for her to have multiple falls, some where she konks her head and needs to go to the ER. I'm not working at the moment and DH likes to spend time with me, which involves us sitting in the same room his mum is in all day every day. We visit outside maybe 4 hours a week. We have virtually no privacy. What drives me nuts about her is her stubbornness. DH will say wait here, I need to go to the bathroom etc. She won't wait. She will get up and literally barrel out of a room and crash into things hurting herself. Every day she gives me a heart attack. I know she has a disease, but listening to instructions and not purposely putting herself into situations where she can hurt herself drives me nuts!
My FIL I guess drives me nuts the worst. He's mentally checked out from his wife. He barely talks to her/interacts and is always gone - which means me and DH are always home taking care of mum from the time she gets up until bedtime then up during the middle of the night. Ask FIL to watch mum while we go to Tesco's 5 minutes down the road to get food and he won't. DH will come home 10 minutes later to find mum on the floor with her head cut open needing to go to the hospital cause FIL is in his office.
Other FIL gripes: yells at MIL when he's around for things she can't help, enters a room dramatically and stands there staring at you until you look up. What do you want, applause? Talks over you - forget adding anything to a conversation. Drunk on wine a lot, traps you in rooms for 45 mins to an hour to tell you stories he's told you 100 times about his old nickname, stinks up entire rooms with farts, takes a spoon and eats out of random things in the fridge - yogart, jam etc. Does not just take one spoonful, he double dips that spoon. Eats up food DH and I buy and hide in the fridge.
I could go on...but one more from this evening...
DH is able to leave the house and go to a friend's for a game. I stay behind. FIL said he'd be back at a certain time so DH could get to his friends at a set time - FIL was late, so I stayed to watch MIL until he arrived and so that DH could just leave. I was planning on an evening by myself as FIL and MIL were going to a resturaunt to visit FIL's old school friends he hasn't seen in ages. FIL says, come with us. I tell him no thanks politely. FIL pushes it and asks me no less than 20 times telling me he hopes he can count on me... and asking me in good faith or whatever. No way am I forfeiting my evening alone to hang out with some 70+ year old people I don't know. I tell him I'm on a diet and wouldn't be able to have food there. He tells me not to eat and come anyway. Ugh. NO NO! I tell him no again. I hear him on the phone to the resturaunt I'm guessing or the cab company telling them he's bringing three people. What did I just say?? Finally he says the cab is on the way. I'm like I'M NOT GOING! He looked hurt. Good grief. So I've probably caused some sort of problem now between us. I should probably mention I have social anxiety as well. I probably would have spent time in the bathroom hiding out. Yes, it sounds odd... I know. Rant is: I just want time alone... without my inlaws. Why is it so damn hard??