Feeling a bit frustrated and needing to vent at the moment. MIL is here for a just over two week visit. Things are 95% wonderful, but there are a few things chapping me a bit.
She loves to sit on the deck and enjoy the sunshine and watch the turtles, ducks, geese, swan, crane and other critters who live on and in the lake. It is great for her, and although hubby and I love to do that too, we prefer to do it in cooler weather, so we get a bit of 'us' time to watch our shows we enjoy, and a moment to relax while she is out there. However, she is in and out the door as often as a five year old on summer break from school. Instead of just coming in, or going out, she will pause at the door to talk, or stand there with it open while talking. Joey hears the outside birds and starts shouting to them, plus flies come in.
Part two: not only is Joey being set off by the door being opened so often, but his routine is disrupted because of another person in the house, later bedtime, and us being on a different routine. So, he is making a bit of noise. Even when he is just doing his usual quiet chatter, she comments on him being noisy, and either calls him 'Noisy', or just looks at him and says 'Noise', or has a full, one sided conversation with him about being noisy. I've explained several times the reason for the noise, or calmly mentioned he is just chattering, yet she still does it. I'm not keeping him covered or moving him to another room. It is his home and he should be allowed to speak.
Part three: She is determined she is going to have him saying "cheeky boy" before she leaves. She says it at least 200 times a day, if not more. I've tried explaining there are phrases he has heard every day since he moved in here just before Christmas that he still isn't saying, so he may never say "cheeky boy". I haven't mentioned that there are some phrases he has only heard a time or two then started saying, for fear she will try even harder. Hubby has said more than once in the past week he hopes Joey doesn't say it because it gets on his nerves.
Other than those things, it has been an enjoyable visit. I suppose I should focus on the fun we have been having, and the way she has been spoiling us. It is just the frequency at which these things have been happening that makes them seem so overwhelmingly frustrating.