Yes - that is the smoking jerk. Thus why I don't want to work for him/his family. And her dress is from the 1970's. It's was pretty and stylish then. I have no idea what size she was. My own mother got married in the 1980's and her dress is extremely '80's. I don't think I've ever seen sleeves that big/puffy before. It was a great, stylish dress then, but I wouldn't want to wear it now! And you're right. I want my own dress. I had bf tell his mom thanks, but I kinda already had another dress in mind (ie not that one).
You have my sympathy on the mom thing. My mother has been driving me nuts. (which is nothing new! There is a reason I live 6 hrs away.) Maybe we should start and "official UKY mothers/family venting thread"?
It's just pointless really, I can see the merit in wearing maybe your mother's dress (if it wasn't so 80s) as it might be a sentimental experience, but your MIL's dress? It's weird, I wouldn't even think to offer unless it was vintage Vera Wang or something!
My mother is definitely driving me mad, yes I know I need to lose some weight, no you going on about it constantly is not helping, no you and my sister calling me on the same night to tell me that I should diet now as I "shouldn't get married whilst I'm so "huge" as whenever I see the pictures I'll regret it" doesn't help. No I didn't buy you anything in NYC money is a bit tight as you know, yes it is difficult for a "fatty" to buy clothes, no I don't need a hair cut, no I didn't throw away that pencil skirt you hate blah blah blah.
I appreciate I'm not the doll daughter she always dreamed of dressing up (also, get over it, I'm 25 FFS!), but lately she's just gone way too far and basically taking out all her frustrations on me, been like that since xmas.
....Head Explodes.