My boyfriend (he is Scottish) and I (American) met, lived and worked on a working holiday visa in Australia for 1 year (we started living together on Feb 12 2008 and left Australia on Feb 5, 2009). I am from California and after OZ we went to visit (and meet) my family from Feb 5, 2009 - March 18, 2009. I then came to visit his family on a visitor visa.
We had looked into getting a unmarried visa in the UK however we knew we needed 1 more year of living together evidence to apply for that. We thought we would go to Canada for that year (him on a working holiday visa and me having family members there; my mom was born in Canada however had to give up her citizenship when her family moved to the US). However when we arrived in the UK, Russell (my boyfriend) realized that the Canadian working holiday visa cost more than expected and could take 2 months to receive.
We decided that we would stay in the UK and figure out a way for us to stay together and work...not proving to be easy AT ALL!
We are 100% committed to each other and would like to settle and live in the UK. Through my investigation (primarily internet searches), our only option seems to get married. I have really great work experience and a strong CV. However, I decided to work on my career and never received a college degree so I don't think I qualify for the tier system.
Here is something else that adds to all the fun. I separated from my ex-husband in June 2007 however, filed for divorce after coming back from Australia on March 5 and divorce is not final until Sept 5, 2009.
I would really like to start working again and I know that no matter what I have go home to get the right visa. However I don't want to have to find work in the US and then again in the UK.
Should I go home now, get the fiancee visa, come back to the UK and wait for my marriage to fully dissolve, and then get married in the UK, and the apply for Spouse so I can FINALLY look for work?
Should I wait till the divorce is finally in California, and my boyfriend and I get married in the US and apply for the spousal visa so then I can come back and work right away.
In addition we are going to live with Russell's mom until we get work and find a flat. We both have savings but since we have been traveling we don't have a work history.
DOES ALL OF THIS MEAN I CAN'T LIVE AND WORK WITH THE PERSON I LOVE UNTIL AFTER SEPT 05!!!!
help help help!!! thanks in advance for any direction you can provide us!
team r & b!