Hello, I am new here. This board was very highly recommended by other expats. I sincerely apologize in advance for my very long post but I hope the detail makes my dilemma easier to understand.
Some background. I got married during October in the US last year (we are both US citizens and my husband is in London on a valid UK work visa). But, I visited my then fiance in London for several weeks at a time in 2008 from February through October (I had retired once I became engaged since I assumed I would move to London asap but crazy wedding planning prevented this). As the months passed during 2008, my increasing UK immigration stamps in my US passport are seriously piquing the attention of the UKBA and I would get the Spanish Inquisition almost every time I arrived in the UK, but I was never denied entry.
Then, of course, my last trip to the UK in early October before we get married (only a few weeks before the wedding), I win the lottery and get a surly UKBA immigration officer with the worst attitude ever. I explain the same thing as I always did and she tells me that I need to get a UK spousal visa for my next return to the UK (she was judge and jury that for all intents and purposes I was "officially residing" in the UK even though I was not) and then stamps the crap out of my US passport, writing "Warning" all over it, and although I am allowed entry this time, I am not allowed to enter the UK without a UK visa the next time. I further explained that I was planning to do so after I married but I could not obtain a UK spousal visa because the next time I was entering the UK was the day after my wedding for a connecting flight to our honeymoon destination (leaving Heathrow for a few hours and then returning). There was no way in hell I was going to get any UK visa the day after my wedding, on a Sunday. I wouldn't even get my marriage license for another couple of weeks! I stated all this and she just chortled at me and sneered, "You'll just have to sort it out then, won't you??" Then she put this unusual stamp (unlike all the other UK immigration officer stamps in my passport) in addition to her "Warnings" in my passport.
So, I get a UK multi-purpose visit visa to resolve the interim issue (non-spousal because I am not married yet). I arrive the day after our wedding without incident. This multi-purpose visa was valid for a whole year but because of the UKBA officer's Warning stamps in my passport, I am directed to get a spousal visa asap or I will not be allowed entry in the future.
Of course, I get my UK spousal (work permit dependant) visa the next time I'm back in the US. I wait for a full month for this visa from the British Consulate in NYC. It finally arrives. With the wrong starting date (a year into the future, commencing December 2009).
So, the next time I fly home to the US, I get another new UK visa after another month with the correct starting date. So, since October 2008, I have 3 UK visas plus "WARNINGS" and an unusual UK immigration officer stamp in my passport.
I get the false hope that I will no longer get hassled when entering the UK. Not. So. Fast. I still get detained. The focus of their inquiries is whether I have ever been denied entry at the UK border. I tell them that I have never been denied entry into the UK and the rest of the whole saga and then they detain me and I assume they are looking up my file as I sit there and wait. (Sidebar: Why is it always like 85 degrees at Heathrow?? It never gets warm here, ever, that you're without a jacket or coat, so why welcome with the sweatbox treatment?) When we returned to London earlier this week, I was told by the UKBA officer that I need to get the Home Office of UKBA to delete the warning(s) in my passport which occurred in early October 2008 in order to avoid being detained by UKBA every time I enter London.
Has anyone done this "deletion" procedure with the "Home Office?"
Sorry for this tome of a post, I get so frustrated by this situation where I was not at fault at all. I prepared all of the paperwork twice, gone through 2 biometrics and paid the ridiculous amounts of $$$ for these visa applications, attorney and courier fees, and all the while being separated from my newlywed husband for more than 2 months total waiting for my UK visas in the US. The UKBA and British Consulate screwed up my passport and especially my visas but I'm the one that gets detained on an average of 30-45 minutes every single time I enter the UK.
I should also add that hopefully we're only here until January 2010 when my husband's work assignment ends. I also return home in the US for a week or so once a month or every 2 months. I do not work in the UK.
Thanks if you read all this. I appreciate it and thank you in advance for any advice you may have for me.