UP: (not really) Today is my birthday.
IA: It doesn't feel like it, DH is working till lord knows when tonight and has been gone since before 6 this morning, I just really hate today aside from DH not being here.
UP: My parents sent me a birthday card & present.
IA: The present was that they paid a tax bill for me from 2006, aparently I miscalculated my state tax I back in 2007 and NOW the FTB decides to notify me...thank you so very much.

I appreciate what my parents did and it wasn't a large amount, but I'm sick and tired of being taken care of...I took care of my own finances for my entire adult life up until 3 years ago when I moved to the UK and I've been dependent on my husband (and now my parents without even knowing it) ever since.
How can I ask them to be joint sponsor so we can move back to the US now? 'Oh hi mom, irresponsible stupid me, holding my hand out and asking for help...again'...lovely.
I HATE my birthday
