UPDATE:
First I want to thank everyone for their responses. This is what happened.....my mom (who's retired) has a very close girlfriend that doesn't live far from me. Well, Wednesday the two ladies had lunch together. On my mom's way back to her house she drove past mine. Guess what she saw standing proudly in my front yard? My FOR SALE SIGN!! Actually her seeing that seemed to soften her up a bit when we spoke over the phone on Friday. So, when we talked yesterday she wasn't angry but sad in a defeated sort of way. I'm thankful there was no yelling, crying etc., Essentially she said, 'I just hope you know what you're doing, this is a huge step you're taking, I hope it works out for you.' Not once did she ask about my fiance, my wedding, plans, etc., Just 'I wish you well' which is the same thing I said to a co-worker that was leaving. Not something a mom should say to her daughter in this situation.
A short time later she phoned to ask what I was going to do with my car. I told her I planned on donating it to Purple Heart. She said, how about donating it to your dad. No problem, my father gets the car.
I can imagine as the days go on I'll get more calls from the family to see what I will be taking over with me. And perhaps what they can have.
I'm relieved and down at the same time.