Part grievance, part in need of advice.
DH and I live in a group of 5 or so flats. Most of the flats are privately owned, but we rent ours through a dude who owns it and goes through a letting agent. Since we are the front ground floor flat, the upstairs neighbor wants to use our flat to run scaffolding through our front window, through the living room, hallway, and bedroom, and out the back window... as the back garden is inaccessible via any other way. Apparently, the outside wall of her flat needs repairing.
DH is like "ok whatever" and I am very much a loud, resonnating "F NO!" And this is why: I don't feel comfortable having my flat open to more than a dozen anonymous people over several days time when we are at work and no one is there to supervise. Hubby and I are tech nuts, and as such have something in the ballpark of £9k-10k worth of computer, video game, and entertainment electronics in our flat. While Im not stereotyping builders or making accusations before anything's happened, it doesnt take a genius to realize they could walk off the job with a couple grand in goods and find another job somewhere else. Or worse, write down our address to come back at a later time, possibly with friends. And then of course there is the issue of running big, heavy poles through right next to and among fragile electronics.
My stance is WE shouldn't have to take time off work to sit around and babysit adults coming and going in the flat. WE should have the right to say "sorry but no." Hubby is of the impression we will just be overuled on that stance because we rent. My response? Civil disobedience. I am prepared to get everyone I know to calmly stage a sit in if needed, making the job impossible. While I know that I have the right to civil disobedience, I cant seem to find anything online to our rights in outright refusing this to happen.
The only other option I've thought of is to draw up a contract, listing what we have of value and making either the neighbor or the project manager sign it, making them soley and 100% liable for financial compensation of anything stolen/broken. But even this doesnt make me the least bit happy. We pay for the space, therefore we should be able to say yay or nay.
Not to mention the last time we let our letting agent send someone in to do something, he tracked mud in all over our white bedroom carpeting, which Im betting is going to come out of our deposit.
RRR its making me angry. Why bother asking our permission if it's not going to matter? I promise that I will inconvenience myself by taking time off of work to stage a sit in to make the job impossible... just to have my say.
Any advice?