1) This time last year, I was...Leaving the worst job I'd ever had. Packing up all my stuff and moving to London. I was really emotional about the whole thing, it really knocked my confidence but it turned out for the best, as am happy now
2) This time 5 years ago, I was...At uni and having the time of my life, sort of. As I'd picked up a borderline drinking problem, random guy - check! a litre of Absolut vodka - no problem!
In reality I looked like I was having fun but was really messed up, I'd had two terrible relationships between 15-18, one with a jealous, obsessive, abusive, loser who stole money from me and did nothing whilst I worked myself to death. I got rid of him and moved to uni a month later.
I met an amazing friend at university who really understood me, unfortunately he had a drinking problem and was sucking me into the mire with him.
So overall, a bad time. I was also about to be diagnosed with a brain tumour, which almost killed me but also saved my life, as I made me realise I needed to quit drinking to focus on getting well - which I did
3) This time 10 years ago, I was...I was 16 and having a ridiculous affair with a guy in his early 40s and utterly convinced of how "right" it was -turns out...it wasn't! Living on my own in a flat above a psycho who later attempted to break into my flat and murder me (proper psycho, he played "white xmas" in July on an old scratchy record player at 2am - he was screaming "i'll kill you" whilst I escaped out of a tiny kitchen window, fell two stories onto a gravel path and ran to a phone booth), it was an awful flat with different type of mismatched floral wallpaper on each wall but when I was alone I loved it but I moved out the day after the Break in and didn't even go back for my stuff.