Thanks everyone. Hmmm I switch it up here and there at least as far as desert, and have only made the whole meal once. I watch a lot of Food Network here, more so during the holiday season and really have gotten into cooking. I love having dinner parties with my friends (will have to find some new friends there to invite over, so I can continue this! hehe)
As for dinner, am part Italian so usually every meal we had with that side of the family during holidays involved that sort of food first and I kind of like that, even though otherwise really don't get into the Italian side of my heritage... so would like to start with maybe an antipasta and baked ziti, then make a turkey breast (not sure yet what flavoring I'd like to baste it in) and yes need some cranberry side as I don't like gravy I usually smother my turkey with the cranberry, then sweet potato something, stuffing and some veggie sides... as for desserts I am not really a pie person, but know my partner like apple pie/cobbler, I do like peacan pie and grew up with my mom making chocolate pudding pies for Thanksgiving day (I like vanilla pudding better). Since dating a Brit I got very into the "trifle" and one year made a pumpkin trifle - for family using canned pumpkin pie stuff and for dinner party I actually went to Cold Stone Ice Cream and got pumpkin ice cream... trifles are always fun as you can switch it up so easily and play around... we also always had some sort of pastries or Italian-type bakery cookies. Pretty much after the meal, you don't want to eat until Christmas!
As for Christmas time... Christmas Eve was usually a fish dish and Italian dishes like eggplant parm or lasagna and meatballs (now here is where I started doing a lot of baking at home, homemade cookie recipies my mom used to make when I was a kid, and would love to make some recipies over there, but would have to look them up and let you know the ingredients to those)... Christmas Day I'd love to make a traditional England Dinner (I just don't eat red meat or ham) so would go with another turkey I suppose unless any other suggestions? And then was thinking of making a curry of somesort for Boxing Day or New Years Day.