Didn't have any particular ones when I lived in the US - it just depended on where I was & who I was celebrating with there.
Being here with DH's family for Christmas (since 2003), I love that things sort of follow a traditional pattern for the day - the way that his family has been doing it for awhile.
Last year, I went with a friend to York Minster for the Service of Nine Lessons & Carols, which was really nice & I'm not at all religious. I felt a bit teary though because at the time, I knew my mom in the US was dying (she died the next day) and I kept thinking how much she would have liked to be there (at York Minster for the service) too. Maybe I'll start going to York Minster every year as sort of my own tradition.
But for DH's family thing (in Norwich), Mum usually makes a nice but simple evening meal for Christmas Eve - it's Mum & Dad, Steve and me, and sometimes they invite some friends over. BIL will be partying in town that night, catching up with old friends.
Christmas Day, everyone sleeps in as long as they like! There may be simple nosh in the morning like cheese scones & sausage rolls. When BIL turns up usually around noon, cocktail service begins as he is the family mixologist: snowballs, frisky bisons, who knows what - usually some new cocktail recipes he wants to try out on us. Well beforehand, Mum will have been given a list of what ingredients he will need & for there to be plenty of ice.
My in-laws often invite others over to share the Christmas with us - friends who would otherwise be alone, so they might stay over at the house for a day or two as well.
Christmas dinner is usually around 3 or 4 - of course, with crackers and paper hats. Lots of silly photographs get taken!
Presents are saved for opening until after Christmas dinner. Dad or BIL will pass them out and there's a mass frenzy of opening gifts. More drinks.
There will be another round of buffet food at some point. And once is everyone is well liquored up, we play charades & 'guess who I am' & any other silly games that people come up with. Until everyone is too tired or too drunk to move, and then to bed.
