HI EVERYONE
thanks for ur replies. Lemee see what I can answer for u all.
1st of ALL i flew into Heathrow ...
2nd of all. I had with me my bank statement ( with $3,800 dollars on it) and $500 dollars in my pocket ( if u convert this i can see that this probally woudlnt be enough money - being half dead from the long flight and nervous i didnt think this through)
3rd.. The front guy( yeah lol i know what u mean guys i got it) went to his supervisor and conversed with him. THEN they got a jolly type guy to search my bags after i found them cos i lost my tags somehow.. which I did pass sucessfully ( i am in love, not a terrorist lol)
SO THEN I was asked to come with him and have a seat.. SO meanwhile all this was going on Poor Patch was looking for me

THen i sat there for what seem liked forever. Then i was taken into another place where i was taken a photo of.. I didnt know what to do. smile or not. They held my bags and i was asked to go into another room if i wanted a drink of water or something. I said no.. cos i was to nervous to offer. I felt like.. If i say yes to that what woudl they do lol.
THEN i had my interview. THey asked easy questions. I KNOW that i didnt give proper answers.
BASIACLLY this is what is going on.
I said i was visiting. wanted t see my friends and go around and see the sights. APPARENTLY this does not take 6 monts to do.
I was asked
what kind of job i had.
would i be able to return
* I dont have any job and i do temporary work. THAT is not going to help my case..
Asked: what do my parents do.. How much they make. Where i live .. ect.
Do i think the money I have provided would be enough ? I said YES but i mean what was i supposed to say?
"Naw Gee i was just playin' i thought i would see what happens after the money ran out!" DUH
Who was Patrick
What did he do
Where did he work
Where was I staying.
* I had said i would stay with him and my friend who I do know that live in Nottingham. but I would stay wiht Patch mostly.
THEN he asked what kind of hours patch worked
what i would be doing while he was at work
mmmmmmm
I said i woudl get up and go around and look at things I would have planned for htat day.
He asked if there was conversation..
I said what>?
He said of buying tickets to things or a plan of seeing things.
I said not yet.
* HE wantedto know if i had had a big huge plan to tour the UK and asked if i had plans of touring the U. K.
now we were going to the Isle fo Wight. BUT I didnt know if he wanted me to say i had plans or not :

aaaaaaah
They asked me if i was paying rent where I stay?
I said NO.. i was staying with friends.
He looked at me funny when I said no. HELLO I am a GUEST. and thats crazy.
SO THEN.. he asked me if patch was my boyfriend
I SAID no 3 times to this cos he asked 2 more times. I didnt know if they were asking Patch this too.. so i still said NO.
ANYWAY i think those were the important questions.
NEXT thing hmmm. Oh so basically he came back hours later and siad he had some bad news ( this time i was bewildered and hungry and i did not want nothing in their snack machines)
I was in the bathroom crying. I figured i would have to go home. and I wasn't sure if they told Patch's family to go home or if they told them anything at all. THEN he said he had bad news and I was being denied entry. I had not done anything wrong but i didnt have a plan and I woudl probaly, if let in .. work after my money was spent.
So i was like" where will i stay " Trhough tears cos i was like OMG i am going to have to stay here over night. there was no other flight out that night. He said No and that I would be able to go home.. that the whole family was watiting for me downstiars ..
he said he would have belived me if i had a plan of what i was going to see. going here for two weeks, a stay in so and so for a month.. THEN maybe. AAAAAAAAAAAAH
so then i was told i had to arrive 2 hours before my flight. I was allowed to stay the night at Patch's house and he didnt think i woudl try to flee.
THEN i go to Patch's house and I look online to get some answers and we looked at my flight online. They changed the date and the ticket and everything. DOES that mean i can get my money back or what?
I have to call British Airways and ask.
I REALLY HATE HOW. We dont know EXACTLY what amount will satisfy these people. and YOU DONT KNOW if u should give them an honest answer or what!
How everything is diffrent for so many people. One person coudl get in and one cant.
I hate how we have these goverment sites, that speak so many diffrent languages. ITS CRAZZZZZZZY. like they dont speak where we can understand things. Thats crazy.
If u all need more info lemme know.