hi all,thanks for all responses,update is...went to local county court today,to see if they had my records,no joy,but they was helpful,and told me the other county court had them 15 miles away,so i rang them when i got back,they said they did have a quick look and for some reason they cannot find it,they see on the indexing it was granted,but dont have my absolute...so they need to contact somewhere in london where ALL divorces in England are kept,so tomorrow ( weds ) gotta drive 15 miles to the other county court,pay 40-00 pounds and they will contact london see if its there......also g/f rung back the local town hall in Usa,and they stated...they want to know...when,where,and why...i was divorced twice in the past????anyway will keep you updated on what happens....thank you for your replys