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A seriously crappy situation
« on: February 13, 2010, 05:10:26 PM »
A friend of mine asked if she could borrow my camera last weekend. She's the same girl who I've been complaining about in the thread discussing when it's too late to phone.

She's been really forgetful lately and leaving her stuff all over. She's lost her phone and had to get a new one, she left her glasses at a friends house etc etc. I didn't want to lend her the camera. I had a feeling that I wouldn't get it back but Jon made me feel guilty and so I said she could borrow it as long as she was responsible for it, which she agreed to.

So anyways, she's back from her trip on Monday, says she'll drop the camera off on Thursday. I figure this means she'll pop by after work and do it.

No, I get a text from another friend on Thursday evening saying that the friend who borrowed the camera asked her to text me and let her know that she's left the camera underneath the milk bottle holder. I got outside and look in but there's no camera. So I phone my friend and leave a message asking her to call me back as there is no camera.

She phones back and says she left it that morning, around 6am or so. Well, the milkman comes on Thursdays around 6:30 am, so we can only assume that he's taken it.

So my ridiculously stupid friend left my camera with the empty milk bottles, thieving milkman takes it, drops off our milk and I'm left without a camera.

Jon was on the phone with her for a good while, told her she was totally ridiculous to leave it under the milk holder. Why didn't she put it through the mail slot? We just couldn't understand why she thought that'd be a safe place to leave it. She got all defensive and funny about how it was a shame we couldn't trust our milkman because hers is perfectly trustworthy!

She obviously was going to have to buy a new one but as this one was a couple years old, they didn't sell it anymore so she'd have to buy the next model that they still sold. She's due to have a baby in May and she's single, so she really couldn't afford buying a £150 camera.

Well, she took our milkman's details off us and phoned him and he's admitted to taking it! Said he didn't know what to do with it. (Why not just leave it?) We think that once he heard it was left there only 30 minutes or so before he arrived, he couldn't really blame the theft on someone else. We're currently waiting for him to drop by and bring it back to us.

It's such a crappy situation. At first I felt guilty for making her buy me a new camera even though she was totally stupid in the first place. However, we're having babies soon and I need a camera! We're now going to have to fire our milkman because we can't trust the guy with such privileged information such as when we're on holiday. And I hate that the most, I like supporting our local farmers and getting local milk straight to our door.
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Re: A seriously crappy situation
« Reply #1 on: February 13, 2010, 05:18:36 PM »
I have to admit as I was reading it I didn't believe your friend had left it at all, I thought it was a cover for her losing it. Obviously I was I was wrong! What it pain it all has been glad but I am glad you are getting it sorted.


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Re: A seriously crappy situation
« Reply #2 on: February 13, 2010, 05:18:48 PM »
Gaaah, what a PITA!  :(
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Re: A seriously crappy situation
« Reply #3 on: February 13, 2010, 05:23:53 PM »
That is a seriously crappy situation.  Although, when I first began to read it, I thought you were going to say she dropped it in a lake or something. 

The milkman thing really sucks. :(


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Re: A seriously crappy situation
« Reply #4 on: February 13, 2010, 05:24:20 PM »
I have to admit as I was reading it I didn't believe your friend had left it at all, I thought it was a cover for her losing it. Obviously I was I was wrong! What it pain it all has been glad but I am glad you are getting it sorted.

I totally thought the same thing. I figured she lost it in Wales and didn't want to admit she was totally crap, so made some story up!

But the milkman has just been and has dropped it off saying that he did try calling in yesterday. We find it hard to believe he'd actually take it, he's such a nice guy but it's all so dodgy.

At least I have my camera back in my hands and I'm never freaking lending it out again!
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Re: A seriously crappy situation
« Reply #5 on: February 13, 2010, 05:27:39 PM »
I thought the same thing as HG.  :-\\\\  I think this is a friend I would start phasing out.

I would suck to have to fire your milkman. Did he tell you why he took it?


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Re: A seriously crappy situation
« Reply #6 on: February 13, 2010, 05:33:21 PM »
That is a seriously crappy situation.  Although, when I first began to read it, I thought you were going to say she dropped it in a lake or something. 

The milkman thing really sucks. :(

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Re: A seriously crappy situation
« Reply #7 on: February 13, 2010, 05:36:43 PM »
But the milkman has just been and has dropped it off saying that he did try calling in yesterday. We find it hard to believe he'd actually take it, he's such a nice guy but it's all so dodgy.

I wouldn't fire him.  He did own up to having it & returned it.  Maybe he was confused as to why it was there & wasn't sure what to do?
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Re: A seriously crappy situation
« Reply #8 on: February 13, 2010, 05:40:21 PM »
I wouldn't fire him.  He did own up to having it & returned it.  Maybe he was confused as to why it was there & wasn't sure what to do?

I agree. Maybe he thought you were giving him a gift or something??


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Re: A seriously crappy situation
« Reply #9 on: February 13, 2010, 05:50:19 PM »
I wouldn't fire him.  He did own up to having it & returned it.  Maybe he was confused as to why it was there & wasn't sure what to do?

He said he wasn't sure what to do with it. So why not just leave it?

I don't want to fire him. He's a really nice guy and I like him and I love getting the milk but Jon's been discontent with him lately. He used to deliver three times a week and now only does it twice and only delivers pint bottles, so we have a ton of pint bottles that take up space in the fridge. Jon is unhappy and so he's sort of taking this as the final straw to fire him but I'm going to see what we can do.

I agree. Maybe he thought you were giving him a gift or something??

LOL. That's what I said to Jon.
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Re: A seriously crappy situation
« Reply #10 on: February 13, 2010, 05:51:50 PM »
I wouldn't fire him. At least he owned up to it and returned the camera. I don't think just because he took a camera that was lying there as an open invitation means that he would break into your house or anything. Not to mention, he certainly wouldn't do anything now that you have had this incident. Your friend was stupid to leave something valuable outside rather than giving it to you directly. I just wouldn't loan her anything anymore.


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Re: A seriously crappy situation
« Reply #11 on: February 13, 2010, 06:00:11 PM »
I agree. Maybe he thought you were giving him a gift or something??

Hmmm... a career as a milkman milkperson isn't sounding all that bad!

Odd story, though, Ashley. I also thought your friend lost the camera. Ah, well. At least it all ended well. I suppose you won't be lending her anything else anytime soon!
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Re: A seriously crappy situation
« Reply #12 on: February 13, 2010, 06:01:06 PM »
I just wouldn't loan her anything anymore.

Oh, that goes without saying.
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Re: A seriously crappy situation
« Reply #13 on: February 13, 2010, 06:14:24 PM »
I forgot to ask if your milkman added to your photo collection while he was holding on to your camera for you.   :P


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Re: A seriously crappy situation
« Reply #14 on: February 13, 2010, 06:16:38 PM »
I forgot to ask if your milkman added to your photo collection while he was holding on to your camera for you.   :P

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