That other thread was very interesting reading!
I've found a nice place to meet interesting people called MakeFriendsOnline.com. Lots of people there for lots of different reasons, going by their profiles, from fun, friendship, to serious relationships and marriage!
I've met two very nice fellows there, one that has all the makings of a friendship, the other that may be something else! If things keep ticking along as they have been, we will spend a short amount of time together in November to see how things "feel" in person.