Hey Julie,
I'm there with you. It's a really bad waiting game but I keep telling my partner, we waited so many years to meet each other. We can wait a few weeks to be together. As for rebooking, since my flight is technically tomorrow night, it is not cancelled as of yet. So I can't call Virgin and rebook til I'm officially bumped.
I am really sorry to hear about your housing situation. But I am a positive thinker, and although I am stressed beyond belief, this is a story to tell for years to come.
And to put it another way, all my freaking out ness in the last 2 weeks have introduced me to new friends in the UK, who I will likely need to cry on when I miss having tacos at 3am, or need to find something like a Target.
So needless to say, when we feel alone, we never really are. Just gotta open up my eyes and look around and see my situation is infinitely better than some others.
So here's to sending you a big hug and hoping those of us waiting to hear back for Visas, Marriage, and a lucky plane ticket will get the go-ahead soon enough.
Until then, there's faith, and Skype.