Well, I got my settlement visa approved yesterday! So, that is a relief!
Now, I just have to figure out how to save every penny for the cost of shipping all my things over (apartment full - all brand new furnishings) which is about 4k, get rid of my leased car which if I can't private sell another 4k and then at least 3k to go over with to support my bills back here while searching for a job. Therefore, money wise, I'll probably stay in Philly until November and then go over which means will be separated for 2 months but it will be the LAST separation.
It's a lot to worry about and it keeps me up at night most times but one day at a time. And, I'm just happy to get the visa so I'll stress with a smile!
Good luck to all moving our moving in the future like me.