I'm in the same bout as all of you. Me and husband were married in US 2.26.10.. we intially filed for him to remain in the states. Everything was smooth at first, he was working, life was great and then in September immigration stated they didnt get something we sent, and they went back to his original tourist visa, deemed him illegal, and we were forced to send him back to the UK. I had a daughter in college that I had to wait for to graduate. Altogether now we have been apart for 8 months. I have just applied for settlement visa to go to the UK. Biometrics are tomorrow, and I will mail the 5# package off priority. I am so scared to death because he cant even visit the US until we hire attorneys to fight for him to have the right to come here at all. So if the UK says no to my settlement visa for any reason, we are screwed. I have never had a visa, nor passport or anything like that so I cant think of any reason they would say no, but after what the US immigration pulled, all of this just has me so scared. I just want to be with my husband. Its sad that we have to fight so damn hard just to have what others take for granted. Cant help the fact we fell in love with someone over the atlantic ocean. I wish everyone on here the best of success!