Well, I'm replying to my own post, while I should have just researched it to begin with and not posted at all!!
Thank you Balmerhon for your link (
http://www.mahalo.com/how-to-make-apple-cider) which gives a step-by-step process on how to make the cider with a blender and some cheesecloth. By the way there is a small typo on the page when it says how many apples you need to make a gallon, but they provide a source link and on that site it says it is 36 apples to a gallon. Though that may be with a press, I suppose by hand you would be hard pressed to get a gallon (lol at my silly pun!).
Apparently all you have to do is puree the apples and then squeeze out the juice. The juice is cider. So I looked up the difference between cider and apple juice, and it says apple juice has just been processed further to remove all the chunks and brown bits, and pasteurized to give a long shelf life. Well! It really is that easy then! Thanks so much for the link and info. It turns out Dad was right, and the juice from the hard cider is soft cider first, before they add the yeast to ferment it, but I can do it myself with a blender. Maybe next year I will ask for a real press for my birthday to speed up the process!
