DH rinses and I rinse, so no domestic quibbles.
At the building where I work, however, there is a community kitchen with one of those soap-filled bucket things in the sink.
I always ignore it, soap up whatever I am washing using a sponge or a brush, and then rinse it under running water.
I try to do it when no one's around because I feel like I will be met with disapproval for wasting water or something.
Sharing dirty soapy water with family members is one thing, but with strangers in an office building... Eww.