I love reading this board - makes me pleased I'm married to DW!
Ha ha! I know what you mean.

I was once in a longterm relationship with someone who was very OCD - it was exhausting. And he was probably the physically unhealthiest person I have ever known - there we not only rinsed our dishes, but with boiling water too. Anything else would 'make him sick' - but he was always sick anyway. So glad I didn't marry him.
Some of the nastiest looking dishes I've ever seen have come out of dishwashers, with food crud still stuck on them, or horrible streaks, and they've
been rinsed. And I've seen hand rinsed dishes the same. Also, I've been to the homes of people who rinse dishes, and witnessed their grotty kitchen tables and counters in need of a good clean/wipe - and I mean left like that, not just after a meal or something. The horror! The horror!

When we're washing our dishes, if we see something isn't clean, we just wash it again. They aren't coated with washing up liquid or anything. Dry everything with a clean tea towel & they actually get a bit polished up that way. My glassware is sparkling and my cutlery shines - if it was really coated in soap, it wouldn't. Simple as.
I actually get sick far less often here than I did in the US, so maybe that's all down to not rinsing the dishes as often!
Actually, I'm a right wind-up... I do rinse the dishes when I do them (
)...
If I'm going to leave the dishes to drip-dry in the drainer, I'll give them a rinse. But that's infrequent because mostly, we just wipe them straightaway & put them away directly.
...but I don't think it's that big of a deal if someone else doesn't. My mother in law doesn't rinse her dishes, but I'm hardly going to refuse to drink out of her cups or eat off her plates without rinsing them first.
It just wouldn't be worth offending her over.
Exactly! Lol! But it's a good thing knowing who feels so extremely passionately about the washing up - maybe it'll help to keep numbers down in the future.
