I'm sorry. I find this thread and the things some have wrote to be very ignorant of the issues for disabled people, speaking as a disabled person. I have CP and spastic was originally an insult meant for me. The word 'spastic' is one of many used to refer to disabled people that is considered as offensive as the N-word, I'm afraid. And unless you are a disabled people reclaiming the word, I would be offended by it's use.
There is a reason that Scope changed it's name - it wanted to move with the times and recognised that the word was offensive to disabled people. Just because a charity shop somewhere didn't change its' name does not make it acceptable. Further, there are historical issues regarding disabled people / people with a disability and the relationship between their 'need' for charity because of societal inequalities, disadvantage and disablism that causes many disabled people to question charities and their need to be a 'cause' as opposed to a charity that is user led for rights for self determination.
For those that say then word is more or less offensive than those related to other groups, I don't think you can judge on the impact unless you are in that group.
There is also a big different between saying:
Someone has spastic quadriplegia - this refers to someone who has a medically defined condition
and
Someone is a spastic or indeed, the Spastics Society, or whatever - that can imply that the person
is the condition, and that nothing else is relevant and that they are less of a person as a result.
For more about offensive words and disability, see:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/ouch/play/worst-words-vote.shtml If anyone in this thread really wants to understand about disability, inequality language and self determination, I suggest you read articles from the Disability Archive at the University of Leeds Centre for Disability Studies. I'm sure if one types in the offensive word, one will get articles regarding issues of disability and language from disabled people's perspective:
http://www.leeds.ac.uk/disability-studies/archiveuk/index.htmlI really hope that a mod looks at this thread. I hope anyone reading this really considers how words can hurt people. If you think something may be offensive, why say it? Why not challenge yourself in considering why it is offensive to not perpetuate inequality?
I won't be commenting any more on this thread.