My sons' passport problems

Yes but how would they know if the boys were American or not? My 2 year old has a UK passport and my other sons have US passports. They never asked me at immigration for my 2  year olds US passport. How would they know if all my sons werent British?

The problem is that if something happens whilst they're in the US and they didn't enter as US citizens on US passports, it's entirely possible they might be referred to the UK consulates rather than be treated as US citizens.

Your youngest should really have a US passport as well.

Personally, I think it's stupid.  But you know how the US and its DEPARTMENT OF HOMELAND SECURITY (booming voice-over) are more than just a little Over The Top...

I swear it sounds like you're describing my ex-husband. He's got the same 'I don't care if I'm hurting my kids as long as *I* have control of everything' attitude. You have my sympathies. I hope everything works out for you.

I'd have thought his CO would be very interested to hear he is trying to deprive his kids of their birthright ie US passports.

You say you have his consent to take the children out of the US in your divorce decree... perhaps the staff at the embassy would accept this as his "consent" to get new passports?

that's a good point Saraliz makes - especially as the kids are already outside the US, it is not like you are going to use the passports to keep them away from their father - quite the reverse

I notified the husbeasts commander tonight. He said he is going to have a word with him. The only thing is my ex is quite high ranking and will pretty much do what he wants anyway. Oh well, fingers crossed!
Pebbles

Good one Pebbles! keep us posted please!

Good one Pebbles! keep us posted please!

I will! Im expecting a very nasty email even as we speak. He's such a bully.
Pebs

well you just post it on here and we'll all email him back !!! 

seriously, good luck.

I will! Im expecting a very nasty email even as we speak. He's such a bully.Pebs

Suggestion:  fax the CO thanking him for his prompt and sympathetic intervention.  If I know military ment, it's possible they could both be sharing a giggle over this, and something on paper may help keep the CO honest...

Suggestion: fax the CO thanking him for his prompt and sympathetic intervention. If I know military ment, it's possible they could both be sharing a giggle over this, and something on paper may help keep the CO honest...

Thats a good idea Garry.
While I was speaking to the CO I asked him if he new the beast and he said in a cheerful voice "I know him well" as if they were golfing partners or something.
It IS very possible everyone is having a good laugh about it. I thought about that as I was explaining the situation.
Ill send a fax.
You give great info. Are you an immigration advisor? I went to your site and found it very informative. Wish I would have seen it a few years ago.
Many thanks for all your input
Pebbles

Many thanks for all your input

I did a hitch in the Navy and have some perspective.

On your other question, yes, my details are at http://www.oisc.gov.uk/adviser_finder/register.asp?type=exempt&section=g

There's some Nam era decorations in my mother's attic or somewhere, but I don't have the pea coat anymore - which is the real shame.

Shame about the pea coat. They are really in style again.   Almost bought one at the GAP last Fall.
Will check out your link. Thanks again for all your help
Pebbles

I am also the "ex" of an active-duty military man. During the 17 years I was a military spouse I never contacted his Commander with regards to the husband's job. That would have been a severe breach of spousal etiquette. I quickly got over that mentality when our divorce proceedings got started. During that time (a time I can now  quite fondly refer to as "War of The Roses, Part Deux") there were several times that just the threat of me contacting his commander was enough to light a fire under his feet. It doesn't matter how high their rank is....no commander wants to have to deal with daily faxes, phone calls, etc. from an irate ex.

If you don't get any cooperation from your ex's commander might I suggest contacting his commander's superior. Follow the chain of command right on up the ladder. It wouldn't surprise me if you have that signed consent form pretty quickly.

Hi Pebbles,

I just read this thread with your situation and just want to let you know that I hope it goes well. 

Let us know if contacting the CO works  Also, the fact that you have consent to have your boys here must give you some authority to get the passports renewed without your ex's signature?  It just doesn't seem to make sense.  Could you get legal advice and get something in writing from a lawyer to bring to the embassy?

Good luck