I have been living here since 15 September and BF has still failed to change the Scottish Power, Virgin, or Sky bills so that it has both of our names for a (hopefully) potential future UP visa. I have become my mother and have nagged him every week and I get nothing but, "No worries, I'll do it tomorrow morning." Not to mention he's weary about getting a letter from the landlord because he's scared he'll make us sign a lease!
All I have is the council tax and my bank statements for the few months that I've been living with him, and with my new visa looming I'm worried there won't be enough evidence to show for the time before the 2 year duration of the PSW. Which means in 2 years' time, we could be cutting it very close with having enough evidence for the beginning of our living together. UGGGGH.
Fortunately, I think I spooked him enough to get his butt in gear. I think he's finally understanding the gravity of the situation!
I hate stressing about a possible visa a few years from now, when I haven't even gotten the chance to finish stressing about the one I'm applying for in a couple of weeks!