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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #5670 on: December 09, 2013, 01:49:16 PM »
Anxiety dreams. The bookshop/cafe I am working at is set to open in a couple of weeks. We're having a sneak peek party on Thursday. I'm the cafe manager, so I've got so many things to think about and my brain was continuing to think about them all night last night. Sooooooo tired.  :-\\\\
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #5671 on: December 10, 2013, 01:56:35 PM »
I am at home today to study and catch up on things. I'd really love to go out and run some errands but I am stuck waiting for a delivery that should have been here hours ago. I hate being hostage to unknown time-frames.  >:(
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #5672 on: December 10, 2013, 03:13:24 PM »
CHILDREN IN MY KITCHEN! I really need to make bread.  Like 2 hours ago.  We have no bread and Gluten Free bread is TOO EXPENSIVE. Making it myself is under $1 a loaf. We will have nothing for lunch if I can't get to baking, and I can't bake with them in here. They are MAKING ME CRAZY! Can't wait til they are big enough to make bread all by themselves. The eldest is 5.  Maybe soon?
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #5673 on: December 10, 2013, 06:19:44 PM »
Large dog leaving large poop on the hardwood floor.  >:(
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #5674 on: December 10, 2013, 11:10:34 PM »
We rent from a company that has quite a few apartment complexes. Their maintenance men seem to be a bit clueless about maintaining. Nearly every time we have called them for something, they come out and say a lot of "I don't know..." "I'm not sure..." and really don't fix much of anything. Flushing the toilet six or seven times does not actually fix it. We had to do some convincing to get him to actually do anything, and then he said if it didn't work, to call in the morning. If you flush and it runs forever, it is either the handle, chain, or the little rubber flappy thing. We know this, but it is cheaper to call them than pay for parts ourselves in a rental.
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #5675 on: December 15, 2013, 11:01:12 PM »
A verbal attack from a co-worker from a different department over coffee creamer, of all things. She has never liked me, since before I started there. Before I worked there, she would glare at me when I would stop in to visit hubby and Chris. After I started working there part time, she really seemed to snarl. Then when I came on full time, she really stepped it up, all without ever actually speaking to me.

She doesn't like anyone, and has a generally surly disposition. She is used to bullying people and them doing what she says just to keep her from going at them. When she started in on me over using the coffee creamer, I told her it was there for everyone to use, and it was for hubby's coffee anyway since it was my day off and I'd brought him breakfast. She kept going about how I was doing it to spite her. Yeah, I think vindictive thoughts when I am getting coffee creamer.  ::) I told her I wasn't going to argue with her, which made her even more irate. Hubby said something to her about stopping, because she was in an area where guests could hear her and he was in charge of the area she was in and it is his job to keep the area calm and professional. Then she attacked him, so he told her he had every right to step in, and why. She launched at me again, and I told her I wasn't going to argue with her, and turned my back. She barked a while then eventually wandered off.

As far as I know, we aren't in kindergarten, or even high school, and petty dramatic crap isn't necessary. I can only guess she has it out for me because the boss and I are friends. We, however, are capable of keeping it professional as a boss and employee relationship while on the clock, and friends when not on the clock. I am sure after today she is really going to try, but I am good at ignoring people.
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #5676 on: December 18, 2013, 02:03:20 PM »
Bank of America

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So back in 2008 when I first studied abroad in London I opened a Bank of America account because the study abroad office recommended it as they offered free atm withdrawals from Barclays. While I was in London for 4 months it was great...after I got back I didn't have any problems so I've just stuck with them...

When I moved here for grad school it was great because I could just move my money over little bits at a time. It worked for me and I avoided wire fees. When my mom came to visit she just put money in my account and I paid for her stuff so she didn't have a transaction fee on her credit card for each meal etc. When we got married family from back home gave my mom small monetary gifts that she put in the account and I could access...

This summer I think it was they started charging for my account unless I had a direct debit or $1500 daily balance in there...but that was ok, my mom just put $1500 to just sit there for the time being so it's accessible if she needs it back but helping me avoid fees while she doesn't...annoying but workable

Then last week I got a bit of money out of a Barclay's since I had some in the account and when I checked my account a couple days ago they had taken out a $10 service fee! I double checked that Barclay's was still listed as a partner and it was, so I sent a message asking WTF (but in nice words). The reply I got was that they've recently (8 November) implemented a service charge basically for converting my money...and that I was notified in an my August statement...well as it's not my main account I rarely look at the online statements and don't get paper ones, I just look at the online banking for a balance...Part of me is mad I wasn't notified better. They obviously know that I'm living abroad because of my address, so I feel like a separate e-mail to international customers wouldn't have been an outrageous undertaking.

Honestly the only reason I really still have the account is that SallieMae won't let me pay my student loans with a foreign account.

Sigh...I just needed to rant a bit.


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #5677 on: December 18, 2013, 04:59:31 PM »
Why is jet lag so much worse flying east -- even after you've caught up on the missed zzzz?  I can pretty much hit the ground running going to US but heading back and I'm a zombie for days.
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #5678 on: December 18, 2013, 11:04:43 PM »
I've wondered that myself, with each trip. Landing in the US, I have always been a bit tired, but otherwise okay for the first few days. When we land in the UK, it is always the zombie thing, and I find myself not only unbelievably tired for the first week or week and a half, but also irritable, I suppose from being tired, for the first few days.
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #5679 on: December 19, 2013, 12:19:10 PM »
I'm always the opposite! Get to the UK, maybe take a little afternoon snooze, and I'm on track. Get to the US and I wake up at 3am every morning for a week!
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #5680 on: December 20, 2013, 02:02:29 AM »
I'm always hit harder by jet lag when I go west rather than east.  I've always assumed it has more to do with starting a holiday, with all the excitement etc., giving you energy, and ending one is a bit of a downer.

I wonder if that will still be true when home is in the UK and the trips are to California?  Hmmmm, that will be a good test of my theory.   ;D
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #5681 on: December 20, 2013, 04:21:01 PM »
I'm always hit harder by jet lag when I go west rather than east.  I've always assumed it has more to do with starting a holiday, with all the excitement etc., giving you energy, and ending one is a bit of a downer.


My mum was always like that -- probably just so hyped up to be seeing the grandchildren and then having to leave them.
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #5682 on: January 01, 2014, 07:27:45 PM »
Flaky friends :/

Was supposed to go to a friend's house for New Years but the day before she said her boyfriend was surprising her with something so could we do dinner the 1st...today we confirmed time etc...then about an hour and half before we were supposed to meet she says she needs to postpone until tomorrow...mind you it takes at least an hour to get to her place from ours so we were already dressed and finishing getting ready

ah well hopefully tomorrow will go smoothly!


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #5683 on: January 01, 2014, 07:47:13 PM »
Not an I, but certainly an A: My direct supervisor use's apostrophe's ever time there's an s at the end of a word, whether it's supposed to be there or not. She's the queen of apostrophe's and somehow find's more word's ending with s than any other person in the world. She also seem's to be the queen of note's, so they are everywhere. It seem's she doe's it to annoy the crap out of me.

Okay, even doing things the way she does to drive home my point is driving me insane. It is a huge pet peeve of mine, and seeing it five days a week is enough to make me want to get a red pen and correct her notes.
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #5684 on: January 03, 2014, 02:09:29 AM »
Not an I, but certainly an A: My direct supervisor use's apostrophe's ever time there's an s at the end of a word, whether it's supposed to be there or not. She's the queen of apostrophe's and somehow find's more word's ending with s than any other person in the world. She also seem's to be the queen of note's, so they are everywhere. It seem's she doe's it to annoy the crap out of me.

Okay, even doing things the way she does to drive home my point is driving me insane. It is a huge pet peeve of mine, and seeing it five days a week is enough to make me want to get a red pen and correct her notes.

LOL I had a good chuckle at this! How a person became a supervisor without proper grammar is beyond reason.
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