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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7170 on: March 08, 2018, 10:42:20 PM »
Damn. Have I heard right?

To take your life in the UK test you're required to have a piece of post that exactly matches your ID?!

Do I have to use my passport? Or can I use my driving license? It's still an issue if I use my driving license as I don't use my middle name on anything. But it may be easier to add a name than to make a huge change to my last name.
The usual. American girl meets British guy. They fall into like, then into love. Then there was the big decision. The American traveled across the pond to join the Brit. And life was never the same again.


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7171 on: March 08, 2018, 10:54:20 PM »
Damn. Have I heard right?

To take your life in the UK test you're required to have a piece of post that exactly matches your ID?!

Do I have to use my passport? Or can I use my driving license? It's still an issue if I use my driving license as I don't use my middle name on anything. But it may be easier to add a name than to make a huge change to my last name.

How long do you have before you need to take the test?  Do you have time to change your name with a utility or your bank and generate a statement/letter?

The website just says it must have "your full name".  It doesn't say it must exactly match... https://www.lituktestbooking.co.uk/lituk-web/whatToExpect#identityChecks

I don't remember which bill/statement/letter I used to verify my address, but I don't think my middle name was on the piece of post I brought in.  I don't typically use it.
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7172 on: March 08, 2018, 11:02:04 PM »
How long do you have before you need to take the test?  Do you have time to change your name with a utility or your bank and generate a statement/letter?

The website just says it must have "your full name".  It doesn't say it must exactly match... https://www.lituktestbooking.co.uk/lituk-web/whatToExpect#identityChecks

I don't remember which bill/statement/letter I used to verify my address, but I don't think my middle name was on the piece of post I brought in.  I don't typically use it.
I have time to make changes since I need it by August 2019.

I always make the mistake of putting my middle name on official identity documents (passport my UK driving license) when I never use it on anything else.

Passport has full name (maiden name) and I believe my license is First Middle Married name.

My bank statements use initials since they're joint statements. Or at least I assume that's why. Not sure why my card has initials and not my name on it. I've never asked...
The usual. American girl meets British guy. They fall into like, then into love. Then there was the big decision. The American traveled across the pond to join the Brit. And life was never the same again.


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7173 on: March 08, 2018, 11:05:10 PM »
I have time to make changes since I need it by August 2019.

I always make the mistake of putting my middle name on official identity documents (passport my UK driving license) when I never use it on anything else.

Passport has full name (maiden name) and I believe my license is First Middle Married name.

My bank statements use initials since they're joint statements. Or at least I assume that's why. Not sure why my card has initials and not my name on it. I've never asked...

It never occurred to me that I could omit my middle name from official identity documents.  I thought it had to be included.  Doesn't it?

For less official things, like utilities, I usually leave it out.  But for banking, it is included.  I'm not sure why I do this.

2019?  So plenty of time to get it sorted and get in to take the test.  Just another hassle is all it is.  :)
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7174 on: March 09, 2018, 09:19:46 AM »
Yeah, the items for the test need to match EXACTLY.  They are really picky about it.

That's why I always get nervous when we tell people to use their maiden name on their visa and passport and married name on everything else.  You'll notice I don't tell people to do that.  :)


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7175 on: March 09, 2018, 10:10:37 AM »
RE married name/maiden name situation, could you provide a marriage certificate to explain this? Not sure if they'll accept it or not
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7176 on: March 09, 2018, 10:12:24 AM »
RE married name/maiden name situation, could you provide a marriage certificate to explain this? Not sure if they'll accept it or not

Nope, not for the Life in the UK test.  For that, you have to have the ID (BRP usually) and the item of mail match EXACTLY.

At last night's book club, our other recent UK citizen was turned away because her bank statement didn't have her middle name on it.  She had to go have it changed at the bank and reschedule.  MAJOR pain in the ass.


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7177 on: March 09, 2018, 10:13:47 AM »
Nope, not for the Life in the UK test.  For that, you have to have the ID (BRP usually) and the item of mail match EXACTLY.

At last night's book club, our other recent UK citizen was turned away because her bank statement didn't have her middle name on it.  She had to go have it changed at the bank and reschedule.  MAJOR pain in the ass.

Thought that would probably be the case, but thought it was worth throwing it out there just in case...Ouch. Looks like I will need to start sorting that out for myself as well.
My, how time flies....

* Married in the US and applied for first spousal visa August 2013
* Moved to the UK on said visa October 2013
* FLR(M) applied for  May 2016. Biometrics requested June 2016. Approval given July 2016.
* ILR applied for January 2019 (using priority processing). Approved February 2019.
* Citizenship applied for May  2019
* Citizenship approved on July 4th 2019
* Ceremony conducted on August 28th 2019

'Mommy, Wow! I'm a legit Brit now!'


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7178 on: March 09, 2018, 10:29:46 AM »
That's why I always get nervous when we tell people to use their maiden name on their visa and passport and married name on everything else.  You'll notice I don't tell people to do that.  :)

I never thought of that implication! Will keep that in mind from now on :).



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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7179 on: March 09, 2018, 10:55:12 AM »
I never thought of that implication! Will keep that in mind from now on :).



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It's only one single thing (the LIUK test).  But I know too many people in real life who have had issues.

There's currently a lady on Facebook freaking out because she doesn't have anything on her maiden name and was turned away for the test and her visa expires in a couple of weeks.


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7180 on: March 09, 2018, 11:25:12 AM »
My wife chose to use a hyphenated version of both our name's and it is a major PITA.  At the time I didn't mind but if I could go back in time I would have vetoed it.  My last name is complicated enough, with an apostrophe and some upper case letters in unusual places, then you add a hyphen and some French and it's impossible.  The main area of hassle is plane tickets where the name has to match the passport.


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7181 on: March 09, 2018, 01:08:58 PM »
Ugh. This house is full of gross surprises, but this one may be our fault. My husband was bachelor to the extreme, didn't own a vacuum and just used a lil dust buster type vacuum for the lil things at his old flat. I cleaned the second I moved in to the extent I could. But I still don't have the spare cash to buy a proper vacuum so I've been telling him pretty much since I moved it needs to become our next priority. Today I found tiny mealworms in the shower. (possibly carpet beetle larvae, possibly grain beetles, they're pretty close in appearance) We need to vacuum every freaking surface of this house stat. The ants at least have already disappeared... We put a carpet over the loose wood and I think the light was attracting em because they pretty much immediately stopped after that.

I feel like life in the UK is a never ending battle for the things I spent years making sure I had in the US. I'm currently wishing my husband had been the one to make the jump, or that I had a full time job so I could just go buy everything I need to be content again. I hate having to rely on someone else, and I hate not having the most basic things to live (like a desk, a laundry basket, not huge asks but I'd been living in the almost negative waiting for my house to sell.) blah!

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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7182 on: March 09, 2018, 01:14:45 PM »
Ugh. This house is full of gross surprises, but this one may be our fault. My husband was bachelor to the extreme, didn't own a vacuum and just used a lil dust buster type vacuum for the lil things at his old flat. I cleaned the second I moved in to the extent I could. But I still don't have the spare cash to buy a proper vacuum so I've been telling him pretty much since I moved it needs to become our next priority. Today I found tiny mealworms in the shower. (possibly carpet beetle larvae, possibly grain beetles, they're pretty close in appearance) We need to vacuum every freaking surface of this house stat. The ants at least have already disappeared... We put a carpet over the loose wood and I think the light was attracting em because they pretty much immediately stopped after that.

I feel like life in the UK is a never ending battle for the things I spent years making sure I had in the US. I'm currently wishing my husband had been the one to make the jump, or that I had a full time job so I could just go buy everything I need to be content again. I hate having to rely on someone else, and I hate not having the most basic things to live (like a desk, a laundry basket, not huge asks but I'd been living in the almost negative waiting for my house to sell.) blah!

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I'm sorry you're going through all this :( It's going to be hard as you had everything set up in the US to be able for you to go about your daily life and now you're having to start back from square one and that is definitely not ideal and not easy :(

Could you rent a vacuum temporarily? Or I'm sure myself or somebody in the area could let you borrow a vacuum if you didn't need it for too long. Could you speak to the landlord and tell them what you've found and ask them to have somebody come in and do a deep clean/vacuum??
My, how time flies....

* Married in the US and applied for first spousal visa August 2013
* Moved to the UK on said visa October 2013
* FLR(M) applied for  May 2016. Biometrics requested June 2016. Approval given July 2016.
* ILR applied for January 2019 (using priority processing). Approved February 2019.
* Citizenship applied for May  2019
* Citizenship approved on July 4th 2019
* Ceremony conducted on August 28th 2019

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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7183 on: March 09, 2018, 01:16:48 PM »
You've got my sympathy Margo.  Keep at it, there's only so many bugs you can kill before you finally reach the end. 


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7184 on: March 09, 2018, 01:32:50 PM »
Ugh. This house is full of gross surprises, but this one may be our fault. My husband was bachelor to the extreme, didn't own a vacuum and just used a lil dust buster type vacuum for the lil things at his old flat. I cleaned the second I moved in to the extent I could. But I still don't have the spare cash to buy a proper vacuum so I've been telling him pretty much since I moved it needs to become our next priority. Today I found tiny mealworms in the shower. (possibly carpet beetle larvae, possibly grain beetles, they're pretty close in appearance) We need to vacuum every freaking surface of this house stat. The ants at least have already disappeared... We put a carpet over the loose wood and I think the light was attracting em because they pretty much immediately stopped after that.

I feel like life in the UK is a never ending battle for the things I spent years making sure I had in the US. I'm currently wishing my husband had been the one to make the jump, or that I had a full time job so I could just go buy everything I need to be content again. I hate having to rely on someone else, and I hate not having the most basic things to live (like a desk, a laundry basket, not huge asks but I'd been living in the almost negative waiting for my house to sell.) blah!

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Ugh, it is so hard.  I promised you awhile ago to tell you about my first day in the UK.

I was picked up at the airport by a car service and taken to my corporate housing in Reading.  Strong tail winds meant my flight was earlier than expected, but not crazy early.  Anyways the UK had just had the worst winter weather in like a million billion years and a lot of places still had snow and things weren't fully functioning yet.

Car drops me and my gigantic bags off at the corporate housing.  I have to climb a flight of stairs to get to the door.  No one there.  It's obviously not anything like I expected.  I had been in corporate housing a few times before in the USA and there's always someone in reception.  Not here.  It was just a random flat in a building of homeowners and renters.  None of whom were entering or exiting via the main front door (parking garage under the building).  I had no phone, as I was just arriving in the UK.  Didn't have a work phone yet or a UK mobile phone.  I had no phone number for the corporate housing people anyways as I figured someone would be there.  So I sat on the steps for 2.5 hours in the biting cold, waiting for them to show up.  We won't talk about how tired I was considering I had been awake for over 24 hours.  I couldn't go anywhere due to my giant bags.

Dude finally shows up and let's me into the flat.  Well, it had been freezing and the heat wasn't on.  So the flat was the same temperature as outside.  And he couldn't get the heat on.  The boiler was not working.  Great!  I emptied my suitcases onto the bed and burrowed under everything to try to get a couple of hours of sleep.  It was SOOO cold. 

That afternoon I walked to the town center to get some food for the place.  Found an M&S.  I got a pizza and lasagna.  I was weirded out by the pizza and lasagna being refrigerated and not frozen.

I get back and put the pizza in the oven.  I take a bite.  I am horrified to discover the pizza was BAD.  It tasted so off.  So I threw it away and put the lasagna in.  It had a white runny sauce on top that was watery and gross looking.  I didn't eat it.  I then went to bed hungry.  That was my welcome to Britain!

So there *are* advantages of having a partner here that can help guide you.  Now I LOVE M&S pizza and lasagna.  I've discovered my first trys weren't "off" they were just different.  LOL!

And when I moved in with my now-husband he had a strict no shoe rule in his house.  BUT HE HAD NEVER ONCE VACUUMED HIS STAIRS.  Because no one wore shoes so they weren't dirty....   ::)  They were a different color when I was done with them. 

How's the job search going?  I know we started to talk about it last night but were interrupted by new comers.  :)


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