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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7365 on: March 27, 2018, 11:47:15 AM »
Oh... and speaking of the chicken... Lmfao.

I cooked him another whole chicken a few days ago. I cleaned it off the bones and all of the meat was sitting in a bowl. I asked him if he could put the chicken into a storage bag and he asked how? What do you mean how? You pick it up and put it into the bag. Why does this require instructions?

How is he still alive? Lol

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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7366 on: March 27, 2018, 11:51:33 AM »
You are right, I found out that a meter on water almost always saves money over a flat fee because of rip off Britain.

I think flat fee is great if you're a larger family who is constantly using water like it's going out of style or having loads of visitors or whatever. For two of us, we use the water for the toilet, brushing our teeth 2x a day each on average and showering once a day each on average (I say that as sometimes we'll shower more if we're doing DIY but it's usually just a second quick rinse off). Our showers are 10 mins long MAX for the most part. Then there's obviously cooking and drinking with water as well but that isn't that much every day. We really don't benefit from a flat fee the way somebody with 5 or 6 people in a house who really enjoy showers might.


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7367 on: March 27, 2018, 02:03:59 PM »
How has this thread degenerated into "My husband is useless at DIY while I stand around and watch"
In our house, DIY is shared pretty equally and we do stuff together. 

Except yard work which I refuse to participate in.  My parents use to force me to do it and they aren't around now so it ain't gonna happen. 


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7368 on: March 27, 2018, 02:09:42 PM »
How has this thread degenerated into "My husband is useless at DIY while I stand around and watch"
In our house, DIY is shared pretty equally and we do stuff together. 

Except yard work which I refuse to participate in.  My parents use to force me to do it and they aren't around now so it ain't gonna happen.
Because I am a spoiled Princess.

I was going to do the caulking but he insisted because he is the man and I shouldn't have to do it.

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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7369 on: March 27, 2018, 02:11:59 PM »
Except yard work which I refuse to participate in.  My parents use to force me to do it and they aren't around now so it ain't gonna happen.

I love mowing the grass.  I find it so satisfying.  I REALLY loved my push mower at my last place and still use it from time to time.  Unfortunately our "new" house has too much grass to mow quickly with the push mower and needs the lawnmower.

Now that the evenings are getting longer, you will find me on a Friday evening cutting the grass.  Yes, I realise I'm lame.  But I love it!

You won't find me weeding though!


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7370 on: March 27, 2018, 02:19:27 PM »
I seriously wonder how families with small children coped with the laundry situation going back a little ways.  Life must have been constant chores, and I don't know how they ever had clothes that weren't damp.

Ok, long stumble down memory lane here:

I remember the 1950s chores, even though I was quite young. For a while we did not have a washing machine, so my mother used a washboard in the washing sink in the laundry room. (We were posh enough to have a separate laundry room!). When she got the electric washing machine, it was a godsend. When we got the dryer it was even better! But, here's how it went, from long years of observation:

Early in the day, once you cooked breakfast and sent hubby/older children on their way and cleaned up the dishes, pots and pans, fed/changed/cleaned up those still at home, got the beds made and things tidied, you started the laundry. Monday was traditionally the day in our neighborhood, as the housewives were "rested" from having Sunday off. (Except for preparing and then cleaning up massive Sunday dinners.)  While you're filling the sink with screaming hot water and grated soap flakes, you separate the dirties into piles. You put the least dirty stuff in to wash first, wring out, rinse, ring out, rinse, ring out. Then the next dirtiest stuff goes into the sink. Same procedure. You might need to let it sit a bit while you freshen up the hot water, or if it is dirty enough to need a soak. Follow with the really dirty stuff, which required (usually) fresh hot water (boiling) and a long soak. Diapers were usually done in a separate load, as you had to get the water realllly hot. For whites (usually hubbie's shirts, if a white-collar guy, sheets, pillowcases, and handkerchiefs) in the final rinse there was a table of "bluing" that got tossed into the water. It gave everything a very slight blue tinge, which actually translated into looking really white, eventually.  While things were soaking you would lug everything else that was done outside and hang it on the line. If it was winter/raining, we had, thankfully, an attic so it all got hanged up up there so we didn't have to bundle up and go outside. (I see racks hanging from the ceiling in kitchens in a lot of the "for rent" adverts here in Glasgow for tenements, so I am assuming that was their "attic.")  If it was going to be raining, you had to just do "emergency" laundry and put the rest off until a better day if you didn't have someplace to dry it.

Next day was ironing day. We had a big old electric iron,  with a spritz bottle to moisten the fabric if it was too dry. Standing there all freaking day long, ironing. When I was old enough, I "got to help" with the ironing. I still hate ironing. So, that's pretty much two full days doing laundry. Every week. To this day I make it a point to ~never~ iron handkerchiefs (in common use before Kleenex became standard), or sheets. Pillowcases I'll do, but only if they are 100% cotton - it makes them feel nicer. The Daughter thinks I'm nuts, but does seem to go for the ironed ones in the linen closet when she changes her bedding.  ;)

With small children there were meals to fix for the ones not in school. We kids were dragooned to help with the laundry once we were old enough to do anything at all, but prior to that my mom would have had us locked in "the playroom" or in a thing (I can't remember the name) that was put out on the lawn outside the window, in the shade, where she could see us kiddos, but where we couldn't wander off. Was like a little toddler prison - bars on the sides... a playpen? Of course, my mom (like a lot of moms into the 1950s) made almost all our food from scratch, so there was no "just open a can" of anything. That included babyfood. So, while taking a break from laundry she'd cook a batch of, say, carrots, and them put them through the mill and strain them for the baby(ies). Feed them, and then do all the washing up that went with meal prep. And change the baby/toddler and clean all that up. Put the baby (ies) down for their nap. And then back to washing/ironing. Her hands would get really red and sore, too.

But you know, I also remember we had way fewer clothes than people do now, and I don't think it had to do with our socioeconomic status. At all my friends' and relatives' homes everything would fit neatly in a closet and a chest of drawers. It wasn't until the late 60s that I remember people just going nuts buying lots of clothes. (They were cheaper by then, I guess? Or maybe people had more disposable income?)  And, as far as keeping the workload in the laundry down, when I was small, we wore more in the way of underclothes - undershirts for all, almost all the time. Little girls also tended to have little aprons or pinafores that they were dressed in if they were going to do something messy. In our house, we had "good clothes" and "play clothes" and I have no doubt that the "play clothes" would have stood up on their own in the corner from the dirt we ground into them. But we wore the same dirty ones every day unless they really reeked, because we were only going to add to the layer of sediment crusted onto them anyway.

My mother (and most of the housewives) would have never worked in the kitchen without an apron for clothing protection. And then, there was the infamous "house dress" - very comfortable to wear around the house while working, but you didn't set foot outside of the house wearing it! (Frump central!) In addition to all that work at home, one had to get tidied up to go out to shop. My grandmother always wore pearls and white gloves to go into town. Unless it was before Easter, when she had brown/black ones.  ;)

But thinking... far as clothes, there was much less in the way of synthetics, really, although they were starting to become widely available by then. So there were armpit guards that went into clothing and could be taken out and washed. Wool and linen didn't get tossed into the washer - they went as long as they possibly could before being taken to dry cleaners. I had a school uniform - one wool overskirt with an attached bib, two school uniform shirts, one school tie, one school beanie-cap, and two pairs of regulation gray wool kneesocks.  I had to wear a full-length slip, and the slip and the shirts were washed weekly. The uniform, maybe once a quarter went to the drycleaners if airing it out didn't help it or I'd spilled something on it.  ;) The socks got washed in the sink and dried on the radiator as needed. (I hated those socks - wool makes me itch! The perfect uniform for a strict Catholic elementary school, that.  ::)    )  As far as adults, blue-collar guys' wives had it rougher, as it's tough to keep a stinky, sweaty, manual-laborer kinda guy's clothes clean and fresh. My dad was a school teacher, with his one suit and white shirts, so my mom got off light. (He also had a "good" suit kept  for Sundays, special occasions, and funerals.)

Wednesday was mending/sewing (my mom made a lot of our stuff) and general housework. Thursday was shopping day - my mother's day out. She didn't drive, so she walked or took buses everywhere. When we were little, we were in tow. Friday was house-cleaning day - floors, walls, dusting, vacuuming, polishing, whatevering. Saturday my dad was home so everything had to be "just so" by then or he would notice it. I don't remember much of what my mom did on Saturdays, but I seriously doubt it was anything like laying around. There were three meals that had to be cooked, and all the prep/washing up from that. And after supper we all had to have our baths and have our hair washed, combed, put in rags, etc., for church the next day. (We had one bathtub, so the work was sequential squirming don't-want-to-have-a-bath kids.)

On Sunday Mom caught a break - my father always made breakfast after church. Pancakes that you could have shingled a roof with (they were really bad). And she only had the one big meal to cook, but since all the kids were home from school on Saturdays and Sundays, they got to do the dishes.

It was so much easier working outside the home, when my turn came around. Plus, I had all the appliances and could (and did) eat out a lot. Most of the people I worked with just prior to my retirement would have a cleaner come in one day a week, and they dropped the clothes off at the "fluff-and-fold" washing service.  Hell of a lot easier of a life than being an old-school housewife!
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7371 on: March 27, 2018, 02:23:55 PM »
I love mowing the grass.  I find it so satisfying.  I REALLY loved my push mower at my last place and still use it from time to time.  Unfortunately our "new" house has too much grass to mow quickly with the push mower and needs the lawnmower.

Now that the evenings are getting longer, you will find me on a Friday evening cutting the grass.  Yes, I realise I'm lame.  But I love it!

You won't find me weeding though!

My sister is a recent push-mower convert.  She loves it, too.  It's made me curious to try one.  But my husband does the mowing, and I'm happy with that, so I'm not in any rush to obtain a push mower.  (He uses an electric Fly-mo, which makes me giggle every time.)

My MIL came over on Wednesday and went nuts weeding my garden.  She's welcome back any time.  :)

How has this thread degenerated into "My husband is useless at DIY while I stand around and watch"
In our house, DIY is shared pretty equally and we do stuff together. 

Except yard work which I refuse to participate in.  My parents use to force me to do it and they aren't around now so it ain't gonna happen. 

My husband is good at everything except maths and drafting (manual and computer-aided).  But that's what I'm for.
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7372 on: March 27, 2018, 02:26:27 PM »
My husband was not a handy man, (I used to say he was the least handy person I had ever met) but I didn't realise how much he actually did to help in the home until he couldn't any more.

Appreciate having someone to share the load with!  :)


 


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7373 on: March 27, 2018, 02:36:19 PM »
Nan, those wool socks would have killed me.  I can't do wool.  At all.
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7374 on: March 27, 2018, 06:08:03 PM »
Nan... I know you asked me a question now I can't find it.

But yes, I got your message.  I've been so sick it's all I can do right now to get to work and back.

My husband and I will be off on the same day soon and he can help me get everything all packed up and sent off.

I've got pickled okra, Real stoneground grits, Mountain Dew,  Barq's rootbeer and reviled ham I need to get shipped off too. I've not forgotten... I've just been waylayed. 

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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7375 on: March 27, 2018, 07:41:16 PM »
(I see racks hanging from the ceiling in kitchens in a lot of the "for rent" adverts here in Glasgow for tenements, so I am assuming that was their "attic.")

Those racks are called a 'pulley' here.  I've had them in a couple of flats and they work great, up at the ceiling where the heat rises.  One of my ex-MILs, though... had hers in the kitchen, and their clothes all smelled of boiled cabbage.   :-X


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7376 on: March 27, 2018, 09:03:30 PM »
THE HEATING IS BACK PEOPLE! I’m basically curled up next to it


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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7377 on: March 27, 2018, 10:01:43 PM »
THE HEATING IS BACK PEOPLE! I’m basically curled up next to it

Woo!  Go heat!
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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7378 on: March 27, 2018, 11:58:12 PM »
THE HEATING IS BACK PEOPLE! I’m basically curled up next to it


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Yay!!

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Re: Inconvenient Annoyances
« Reply #7379 on: March 28, 2018, 09:04:31 AM »
Sorry just catching up on all the other responses that I missed)

How has this thread degenerated into "My husband is useless at DIY while I stand around and watch"
In our house, DIY is shared pretty equally and we do stuff together. 

Except yard work which I refuse to participate in.  My parents use to force me to do it and they aren't around now so it ain't gonna happen.

My husband and I do do DIY together...but I would NOT re-lay pipes etc. I am definitely not confident enough for that lol. Normally we do the DIY together but I've taken more of a backseat at this stage because I can't realllllly help him cut and replace pipes because it's a pretty delicate process and he's very exact about it all (you have to be or it will leak). Now that pipework is done, I can actually start helping (which we'll probably have tiles being done next after hooking up the fixtures).

I love mowing the grass.  I find it so satisfying.  I REALLY loved my push mower at my last place and still use it from time to time.  Unfortunately our "new" house has too much grass to mow quickly with the push mower and needs the lawnmower.

Now that the evenings are getting longer, you will find me on a Friday evening cutting the grass.  Yes, I realise I'm lame.  But I love it!

You won't find me weeding though!

Yeah I will swap with husband for mowing the lawn, but I HATE weeding. I don't even love mowing the lawn, but we trade off almost all of the household responsibilities so I have to draw the short straw sometimes haha. We do have a lot of grass. I keep asking my husband if we could get a ride-on mower but our garden is definitely not THAT big (I just really would love a ride-on mower haha told him I'd do the grass ALL the time).


My MIL came over on Wednesday and went nuts weeding my garden.  She's welcome back any time.  :)

My garden would also welcome her over this way any time she likes ;)

Woo!  Go heat!

My thoughts precisely haha and no leaks, so that's the added bonus (meaning it can stay on!). Our towel radiator in the bathroom gets RED HOT. I love it! haha I am basically a lizard so I huddled over by the radiator in our bedroom for probably a solid 10 minutes lol.

Yay!!

We're sleeping on a mattress for the first time in weeks. Just IKEA beds but  better than air mattresses. The good one was delivered today but needs a lil airing out (but it's not as bad as I expected) so life will be back to normal soon!

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Oh yay! Does the new one look like the right one finally?!

My, how time flies....

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* Moved to the UK on said visa October 2013
* FLR(M) applied for  May 2016. Biometrics requested June 2016. Approval given July 2016.
* ILR applied for January 2019 (using priority processing). Approved February 2019.
* Citizenship applied for May  2019
* Citizenship approved on July 4th 2019
* Ceremony conducted on August 28th 2019

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