I will be applying for my visa in January, in person, at the New York consulate. I'm going to see my fiance in November, and we were going two take care of the letters of intent, letters from employer, landlord, then. Is there going to be a problem because the letters will have been written to months before I apply for the visa? We will also be making a reservation at the registry at that time. We want to do everything while I am in England, so I can take everything home on the plane with me, and don't have to worry about documents such as his visa and divorce papers getting lost in the mail. I suppose we could post-date the letters, but we can't date a joint letter of intent so that the date is one in which I wasn't in the UK.
I don't understand. Don't the consulate people understand you can't just hop back and forth across the Atlantic whenever you want just so you can get a piece of paper? In addition to the cost, people have responsibilities at work, home etc. My visits to the UK have involved arranging vacation time months in advance. I can't just say to my boss, "Sorry, I have to take a couple of days off next week. I have to go to England to sign a form."
As for changing our minds, we could change our minds after the visa is issued. We could change our minds the day before the wedding.
I was hoping to get all the paperwork out of the way as early as possible, so I wouldn't have to worry about it. I'm confused now.