I live about 6 miles west of Aberdeen in an area called Maryculter. It feels like living in the country but only takes about 10 minutes to get to Aberdeen when traffic is light. My husband works right down in the harbor area and it's an easy commute. Your decision on where to live will be somewhat influenced by where your office will be as traffic can be an absolute nightmare. Popular commuter areas are Peterculter, Milltimber, Bieldside, Cults, Westhill and Kingswells.
If you'd like more info or want to pick my brain about Aberdeen just send me a PM.
Lee