Thanks PB! I'll keep this thread posted. This woman is unpredictable. She's so nice yet I don't really trust landlords. The nice ones have screwed me over the worst. No offence to any landlords on this board :p.
I know you said no offense but I do take offense to that. We are landlords here in the states and will continue to be but tenants need to treat their rental property as theirs while they live in it, by that I mean when a problem crops up tell the landlord so it get's fix right away not months down the line when it will cost the landlord more to correct the problem.
Replace air filters for heating and air, I know that is not an issue in the UK but it is in the States and it cost us big time! We had a tenant that was in one of our properties for over 5 years, we never raised the rent on her and we sometimes even mowed the lawn for her (1/2 acre land) which we did not need to do as it was in her lease for her to do it. Anyway she never changed the air filter the whole time she lived in our house and it burned out the condenser on the heat/air unit which had to be replaced. She also did not tell us about a leak in the bathroom that resulted in the floor rotting under the lino. These things ended up costing us over $5000 to fix. If she had just purchased a 50p filter and changed it every 2 months and told us about the leak in the bathroom it would have saved us a lot on money and headache later.
Even with all that we gave her all of her deposit back. I don't know anything about UK law on what a landlord can hold a deposit for but over here we have strict rules about what, how much can be kept per item and how long a landlord has to return the deposit and most is spelled out in the lease.
I am not saying the problems with your flat were caused by you, some landlords are slum lords and don't give a crap about their properties, I am saying landlord-tenant relations are a two way street. Treat your rental property with the respect you would if it was your own and everyone will be happier in the long run. Again not directed at you just an observation.