Oh boy Sscarllet, I hope the bitterness goes away soon for your own sake, there was absolutely nothing you could do about the weather, all your loved ones, including your new husband went to spectacular lengths to give you the best wedding they could, even with a hurricane looming on the horizon- you got MARRIED! to the one you LOVE! It doesn't matter that it wasn't in a reception hall, or with perfect decorations or flowers or music, or any of that cookie cutter standard wedding "stuff"! You found out how great your family and friends and your new husband are when things get bad, you are a very lucky person with a wonderful new husband and have a wonderful new life ahead of you, with a great story about your wedding day! Appreciate all that was done for you instead of being so bitter, yeah it stinks that all your meticulous planning for your big day fell apart, but in the end your family and friends were still around you when you declared your love to your man. Now to be very blunt and I do mean this in the most helpful way, I really do, get over it!