Hooray for your bank account! It can also come down to who you talk to at the bank. We asked several times, different people at the same branch of hubby's bank, and after two years, I was finally able to get get onto his account so we could have a joint account. The woman who said yes smiled and said all we needed was my passport and something to prove my address, such as council tax bill. Just that simple. I'm not sure why no one else could make it that easy. He even had trouble switching banks about 6-8 months after moving back here from the States, even though he'd had an account open the whole time he was away, because he'd been out of the country for nearly five years. I've never seen anything like the hoops you have to jump through just to get a bank account here.
When we added hubby to my account in the States to have a joint account they only needed his Social Security number and signature. Simple and easy. Our account in the States is still open with just a couple dollars in it to keep it active, and they send monthly statements to mom's address, and never made a single hint toward a fuss about it.