In answer to my own question, after doing some research I have found a very helpful link at
http://www.ukcisa.org.uk/student/info_sheets/tuition_fees_ewni.php#cat1 [nofollow] which states:
Special Provision:For people studying in England on higher education courses starting on or after 1 September 2011
You do not have to meet the Category 3 (b) or (c) criteria (above) if you are studying on a course in England only, which starts on or after the 1 September 2011, and you are:
the 'relevant family member' [see Box 7] of a non-UK EU national, and that non-UK EU national is in the UK as a self sufficient person or as a student;
OR
the 'relevant family member' [see Box 7] of a UK national who has exercised a right of residence in another EU member state, for more than three months, as a self-sufficient person, a student or a worker
AND
your 'relevant family member' has been ordinarily resident in the European Economic Area (EEA) and/or Switzerland and/or the overseas territories for the three years before the 'first day of the first academic year of the course' that you are studying.
Which means I can afford to at least apply to grad school beginning next year! Hurrah!
Mandi