Interesting that the Euromillions lets you keep your identity secret. AFAIK, the Powerball and MegaMillions lotteries in the US require you to identify yourself and take part in publicity for them.
It seems to me that she is undeserving of this prize. Any decent mother would automatically call up their child and tell him/her the good news and make sure they get the education they need to at least get ahead in life. If she left him at the age of 12, how could he have really been that bad for her to have walked away from him? It does reflect rather poorly on her that she hasn't contacted him at all. If, what he says is true, I can't say as I blame him for speaking up and letting people know just what kind of character she appears to have.