You'd have to take me back to the US kicking and screaming. My life here is GOOD, really good. I have my moments, but overall I wouldnt want to go back there. If we had to leave the UK, would probably move into Europe or east coast of Canada.
I feel the exact same way. I would probably never move back to the US. I love where I'm from (Boulder, Colorado) and would love to live there, but realistically we couldn't end up there due to the lack of work opportunities in our industries. My husband is in oil and the places we could move in the US are places I'd never go (Texas and Louisiana). I love living in Edinburgh and would hate to leave here, but I'm going to have to in a few months. It's funny that you said you'd move to the east coast of Canada, because that's where I'm moving. It's so beautiful there and it seems like there's a huge focus on the outdoors, which is what I grew up with, so I can't wait to get back to that. I love city living, and Scotland is beautiful, but I'm ready for beautiful, untouched wilderness.
There are things I dislike about the UK, including the lack of work opportunities. You'd think someone with an impressive educational and work background would have no problem finding work, but it has been impossible. I was making a very good salary in the US, and after arriving here I found out that even with the exchange rate, I would only be making half of what I was making before. I'm hoping Canada has better opportunities for me.
I hadn't been in the US for 3 years and went back to visit some friends and family in Chicago earlier this year. I felt so unwelcome as soon as I arrived at immigration, with an immigration official on a power trip that was hurling personal insults at me and a homeless woman trying to attack me once I was in the city. Seeing my friends was great, but it wasn't enough to make me want to go back. The entire time I was in the country I felt out of place and really didn't enjoy being there; I couldn't wait to get back home! I went back more recently to Colorado and it was a completely different experience that made me really miss the US. Everyone was friendly, including the immigration official who said "Welcome home!", the weather was fantastic, the food was amazing and the focus on the outdoors was something I really missed. However, after returning to the UK and thinking about having 10 days of holiday each year and dealing with American politics (the campaign commercials drive me crazy!) made me really appreciate being back here.
I think the US is just a place I'll visit, but will never be home again. With my husband's job, we're going to be moving all over the world for the next 20 years or so, and I think we'll always consider Scotland to be home, and it will be where we come back to when we retire.