So, update:
The blood test for Lyme was negative so I made an appointment with a rheumatologist. That was this morning. She completely dismissed the idea of Lyme, saying that the doctor I'd seen a year and a half ago was a quack (her exact words--kind of unprofessional if you ask me) and ordered a bunch of blood tests. She suspects fibromyalgia as well and talked about how the treatment is antidepressants. She also gave me a lecture about losing weight and exercising more. Finally, she wrote me a prescription for a "muscle relaxant" that made it sound like it was something I should take while achy or whatever, a little stronger than the ibuprofen I've been using.
So I went to fill the script and it turns out she prescribed me an anti depressant without telling me. It's not that that annoys me, per se, but she should have told me. It is also one of the ones with weigh gain as a side effect and from what I can gather from a friend who was previously on a weight-gain side effect anti depressant, there is nothing you can do to stop gaining or lose weight while on it. It also has some fairly nasty withdrawal symptoms associated with it and it's one of those drugs that is Very Very Bad for fetuses. Now, I'm not planning to have kids probably ever and I'm not currently having sex very often, BF being in England and all, but she doesn't know either of those things. Nor did she warn me, a young woman of child-bearing age, that I really, really should NOT get knocked up while taking it. This really rubs me the wrong way. At one point, she did ask if I had a "sleeping partner" (she wanted to know if I snored) and I answered no, not regularly at least, but that doesn't imply that I'm not at all sexually active, I don't think.
So I don't plan to take this drug. I don't necessarily object to the anti depressant but I definitely object to being prescribed it with no opportunity for discussion or questions or starting with one with less-bad side effects. This is especially true since she gave me a lecture about losing weight and then prescribed me something that was likely to cause weight GAIN and didn't warn me about it.
Am I overreacting? I'm disinclined to go to back to her. She also asserted that Lyme "always" shows up in the blood and if it didn't, then I definitely didn't have it, that you definitely have to have the antibodies if it's there. I've definitely read different opinions on perfectly respectable websites, like WebMD, not just on fringe, conspiracy theory type webpages. Anybody have any ideas about what I should do next?