Hi Zivvy,
I'm from Nashville, Tennessee. My husband and I decided that it was "me" who was able to move to the UK due to family issues, and after reading everything until I almost drove myself insane, we decided that all we needed was the Spouse Visa. It is good for two years, renewable, will allow you unlimited entry into the UK, and to work here, once you have your National Insurance Number....you will then become a taxpayer !!! ha,ha.
So, he came to Nashville from Liverpool, UK. I had already downloaded and printed the Visa Application form, and had told him for weeks, what paperwork he needed to bring.
We married on a Saturday. Since you MUST send in with the application, a Marriage Certificate, signed by your local County Court Clerk....we had to wait until Monday morning...we went directly to the Clerk's Office, got the Marriage Certificate, in person, and we added it to everything else we had together, and drove it to Federal Express. Then we went on a short honeymoon.
You MUST send your "actual" passport in with your application, and his as well. The Visa itself is only a stamp, placed on a page inside your passport. Just read the application carefully, and send them everything they ask for...and then some. I had saved ticket stubs, letters, old e-mails, cards, and loads of things to prove my husband and I had known each other a long while before we married.
I had panicked out of my mind for weeks over this Visa thing. Of everything involved with moving to another Country, the Visa was by far the easiest thing I did. It came back, via Federal Express, in 7 days.....no questions asked. I was totally shocked !!!
Just read carefully, send them what they want, and you will be okay !!
Best wishes, Gwinn