Welcome Cait, congratulations on the wedding and finding a job so soon. My wife has been here 4 years, and took her a year to find work. The worst time for her was that first year, a combination of missing home, being lonely and no work whilst I was out during the day.
I'd like to advise you that it gets better.....she now is completely settled, of course there's times she misses the US, but now when we visit she's happy to get back home to the UK.