Well im hoping that her children still being in the US is going to be a strong enough reason,they will be with their father,although they're teenagers now,i have my own place here and hopefully will be supporting her during her stay,i'm still trying to find out the new rules on this £18,660 income too,i am self employed and own a small company and cant find out where i stand on that issue for when we are married and want to settle here.Oh,she has never left the US before and doesnt have any convictions or anything bad like that,and im 45 and my girlfriend is 36 if that makes any kind of difference at all.