My 5 yr old son goes to a very nice little school here, and gets along well with everyone. However, the school is located near (or possibly in) an estate (I'm really sorry, all these connected houses look alike to me, I can't tell whether they're council houses or not!) and all the moms are SO clique-y!
I've worked hard to be nice and friendly to everyone without trying to be intrusive. But we live in a nice converted Victorian on the seafront, and we're American, and we ride our bikes to his school instead of walking over from just down the street, etc...
So we don't really fit in well.
To make a long story short, this morning in the playground before the bell rang, one of my son's little classmates ran up to him and told him all about the birthday party he's having this coming weekend, and told my son, "Can you come to it?" Of course he said yes, then the kid ran over to his mom who was hanging out with her group of mom-friends and asked where my son's invitation was.
She had a handful of them in her hand, and she quickly looked over at me and put them in her pocket and told her son off for broadcasting his private party all over the school yard to people who weren't invited.
Then she went around and personally handed out invitations to a lot of my son's classmates, right in front of him (and me).
I think I'm more upset than he is, but still, what a b*tch! My son is engaging and outgoing and all his classmates love playing with him. I've extended invitations to their parents (we live right next to a sheltered cove with a lovely beach and a playground/park), but only a few have ever made the effort to be friendly to us.
It really pisses me off