I've looked into and we have everything we need for me to get a spousal visa. However, the UK Border Agency estimates that it can take between 10-120 days for the visa to be processed in the United States.
The spousal visa processing times in the US have really sped up in the last few weeks. At the moment, if you apply using the settlement priority service (which is supposed to get your visa processed within 15 working days), it's only taking about 1 week, maybe 2. And if you don't use the priority service, it's taking more like 2-3 weeks. We recently had someone who mailed their application (priority service) the week before Easter, and their visa was approved the week after Easter.
Thank you all for your helpful replies.
Are you 100% sure about not being bound by the 3 month rule?
I can't find any documentation on it.
Yes - 100% sure.
You can enter the UK at any time during the validity of the visa.
However, if you leave it longer than 3 months and 28 days after the 'valid from' date, you will not qualify for ILR (permanent residence) before your next visa expires... and so will have to spend several hundred pounds to extend your visa to cover the time between your visa expiring and qualifying for ILR.
If you enter within the 3 months and 28 days though, you will qualify for ILR before your next visa expires and so you won't have to extend it.
This is stated explicitly on the official UKBA website, under the section for qualifying for ILR as the spouse of a UK citizen (
http://www.ukba.homeoffice.gov.uk/visas-immigration/partners-families/citizens-settled/spouse-cp/settlement/):
If you delayed your entry to the UK
If you were given a visa in this category but you then delayed your travel to the UK by up to 3 months, you can apply for settlement using application form SET(M) shortly before your visa expires. Provided you meet all the other requirements, we will put your application on hold until you have completed your 5 year qualifying period in the UK.
If you were given a visa in this category but you then delayed your travel to the UK by more than 3 months, you will need to apply using application form FLR(M) for a further probationary period of 5 years. If we give you a further probationary period and you meet all the other requirements for settlement (including the knowledge of language and life), you will be able to apply for settlement as soon as you have completed a total of 5 years' probation (adding together your time spent in the UK under your visa and the necessary number of months from your second probationary period).
Do you suppose if I call the US Embassy they will know?
The US Embassy won't be able to help with anything because they only deal with visas to move to the US.
You could try to contact UKBA instead (in the US, you would need to contact their commercial partner, Worldbridge), but to be honest, they don't often know their own rules and have been known to give incorrect advice.
Plus, the information you want is on the UKBA website anyway, and that's where they get all their info from anyway.