Well, Cheers... In my world, and in my book, you need not run for cover, because I do not need anyone and everyone to agree with me about everything.
I have friends who liked her, and that is fine, and we are still very close friends.
My very good friend of 30 years voted for Bush. I did not. We both love old skool hip-hop, and classic cars. We both love cheese. We have tonnes of other things in common. We get on just fine!
See, I am noticing a Thing, or a trend, or a mindset... One that does not really exist in NYC... Maybe because we are so diverse there, and we live stuffed so closely together... We don't 'hate people' who do not agree with us. We sort of can't. No one agrees with everyone about everything in NYC. If we did that, pretty much everyone would hate everyone. So, we are used to hanging with people who think differently than we do, and it is fine. (Although there is a lot of eye rolling and laughing...But not a lot of, 'I hate you for not agreeing' ya know?!)
If I say, 'I hate Thatcher' and you say, 'I loved her' we can still get on just fine in NYC. That sort of thing happens every day in NYC.
I can still hang with someone who does not agree with me about something, or even anything.
We can disagree, but still be cool with each other.
I don't see much of that go on outside of NYC, and it is really sad.
There seems to be a Thing outside of NYC of, 'If you do not agree with me on X, Y, and Z, then we are In A Fight, and I hate you' which is very strange to me.
I've noticed it before. I noticed in a lot in Miami when I lived there. I notice it a lot here too.
I like people who like to debate. I don't even want everyone to agree all of the time.
I mean, diversity should include diversity of thoughts and opinions too, and I do like 'like minded people' but being surrounded by people who always agree with you on every topic can get quite boring, and we are assured to never encounter differing views, and perhaps learn new things, if we don't branch out from the 'I agree tree' as my friend calls it.
So, feel free to have your views! A lot of people liked her. I didn't, but that is MY view of her, and differing views, expressed respectfully, or even comically, or at least logically, are totally welcome in my world.
I think that is the biggest thing I miss about NYC, aside from my people, and the food... Being allowed to NOT agree, but still being friends with that person!
xoxoxoxoxox,
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