We've made Thanksgiving a new tradition among our friends here (I'm British, hubby is American). It's nice to have a celebration with friends in the darkening days of winter, especially when Christmas is such a family time. We have a few regulars whom we always invite, plus extra waifs and strays, usually ends up being around 10-14 of us. It's fun!
This is what we do too, more or less. Usually no waifs or strays, as even if the regulars
all come it's really more than we practically have room for! There were a couple of years when we had 20+, and while it was fun in some ways, it was waaaaay too many for our house - the coat rack fell off the wall taking some of the plaster with it, back in 2010... So then we took a year completely off (the bathroom was falling apart in 2011 & needed a redo), ran away & did our own private Thanksgiving that year, just DH & me. Last year, we returned to doing Thanksgiving, but agreed limiting it to no more than 10-15 maximum & with the usual suspects who come year after year, that's where we are & it's almost manageable (as opposed to completely out of control, lol!). About that size & people who've been our friends for many years, it
feels like a family Thanksgiving (only on the Saturday following the actual holiday). DH & I do the basics - turkey, mash, stuffing, etc & everyone who attends has to bring a Thanksgiving dish to the table as well.
So if you can't find what you're looking for, I say throw your own Thanksgiving! Start this year, make a new tradition & build on it from year to year.

...and the husband didn't really notice and doesn't know what all the fuss is about.
My husband didn't really 'get' it the first year or two, but now he loves it! And I think he would cry if we didn't do it. This summer, he was even sad because we didn't have a chance to do something for the 4th of July.

Hey & don't forget the
Mega Thanksgiving Thread for menu ideas, tips & advice on how to 'do Thanksgiving' here in the UK.
