Hi! thanks for responding Bookgrl and Wren! I'm still trying to figure out how to post properly here, but for now I'll respond to both of you in one single post.
Bookgrl, Bury St. Edmunds is great! My husband is working in Cambridge and commutes from here which is not ideal, but the cost of living is so high in Cambridge that we decided to push out a little and settled on Bury for the good schools to choose from for my 14 year old and the fact that it is a nice size town and very beautiful. If you ever plan to come shopping for the weekend, send me a message and maybe we can get together although many weekends we are in Woodbridge where my husband keeps our boat. I would love to get together sometime.
Wren, I love Decatur! I have a small accessories business and used to sell at the Decatur Arts Festival and the Clairemont school Christmas festival every year, they were always 2 of my best shows.
We ended up here for kind of the same reason you will be coming back, but my husband is actually Spanish. He has been desperate to move back to Europe for about 10 years and we waited a bit while our older son was getting through school and then the economy went sour in Spain and he could not find a job, so he decided to start looking in the UK to at least be on this side of the pond and closer to his Mom. He has rights to live and work here as a EEA citizen, and my son and I have an EEA family permit. We lived 25 years in the US, so I thought it was only fair to give this a try. So far so good although of course nothing is perfect!
This area is quite nice, where in the Uk is your husband from? Have you considered East Anglia?