When I applied for my current job I had to supply references from all my jobs/universities for the last 5 years and I had no choice about them being contacted... all of them were.
However, I was applying for a job with a UK government agency and the post required full UK government security clearance, so I also had to fill provide lots of information (including all my addresses for the last 5 years), and fill out detailed security questionnaires about family members and current/previous partners.
So, I guess it might depend on what kind of job it's for, but it does seem a bit extreme/ridiculous for them to request your partner's passport and your marriage certificate.