I just want to congratulate those who have received their long awaited news and can now get on with things.... like making plans.  I also want to send heartfelt empathy to those who are still waiting for visa applications to be done.  It is absolutely one of the most aggravating things I've ever gone through (almost exactly a year ago for my fiance visa!), and the inability to make plans, know where things stand (no way to track the progress of your own application - arg!), and having my far too creative mind come up with every possible disaster that could befall my visa application was enough to make me feel like I was losing my grip on reality.  In retrospect it wasn't all that long, but it was a few days longer than several others here, which made that aforementioned creative mind of mine really kick into high gear with the dreaded "what if?" scenarios.  No one around me really understood, except people here which helped immensely.  Sadly I was simply too wrapped up in nervous limbo, so that I couldn't do what I really wanted which was to enjoy the time I had left with my friends and family.
I do hope this isn't making anyone feel worse, but hopefully just a wee bit more understood.  It will be over and you will be here with your loved one as I am, but this time spent in between one life and another is beyond stressful, so do something nice for yourself if you can and I hope and pray your wait will be over very soon.