The card your talking about is the BRP card
Which I wknt get till I get my FLR(m), but you should get one because you're applying for a spousal visa
Atleast that's how I think it works
Spousal and fiance visas are issued as a sticker in the passport, so you will NOT get a BRP with a spousal visa.
BRPs are only issued for applications made in the UK. If you are applying for any type of a visa in the UK, it will be a BRP card, and all visas issued outside the UK are issued as a vignette in the passport.
So, for you, the fiancé visa will be a sticker, then you will get a BRP for your 2 FLR(M) visas and your ILR.
For, Elsa Roberts, her spousal visa will be a sticker and then she will get a BRP for her FLR(M) and ILR.