Why mention he was a Scott?
"I knew a Welshman once, would steal the fillings out of yer teeth, got bunged with a load of copper wire...."
I'm assuming he must be referring to someone with the surname Scott, as opposed to a
Scot.
Oh, who am I kidding? It's because, obviously, anyone who isn't an 'Anglo Saxon from the Shires' isn't really, properly British, and it's important to be clear about these things. I mean, it goes without saying that Scottish, Welsh, or Northern Irish folks aren't the 'right sort,' but it's worth reminding people that simply living somewhere in England isn't enough. There are plenty of undesirables there, too, so you simply must be specific when you're trying to prove your
bona fides to strangers on the internet (who can't see how white you are).
To the OP, we're all very sorry that your relationship didn't work out, and that you feel you were taken advantage of, and your family disrupted by your ex, who happened to be American. That sort of thing is never easy.
But you appear to be trying to make yourself feel better by coming onto this forum and scolding all of us arrogant, selfish, scofflaw Americans for a slew of vague offenses that you imagine we're out committing, up and down the country, whilst we laugh gleefully at our poor, 'born and bread' British (which, I sense, you equate with 'Anglo Saxon from the Shires') victims.
It's insulting, and it's also a waste of your time and energy.
If your ex is still in the UK, or is still making frequent visits, then report her to someone who might care: the police, the Border Agency, the DVLA...heck, talk to a lawyer and find out if you can sue her yourself. (She certainly seems to have caused you emotional distress.) You can comfort yourself with visions of her dragged off in handcuffs and deported, with a sharply-worded note from the Queen tied around her neck, and a stamp on her forehead reading 'Bloody Colonial.'
Or, you could just let it go. Accept that there are people in the world-- of every conceivable nationality, ethnicity, race, gender and socio-economic class-- who are just Not Nice. They don't think about rules, consequences, or other people's feelings, and the worst part is, they seem to get away with it. It's not fair, but it
is reality. You can either spend your time obsessing over the injustice of it all, and looking for revenge, or you can call it a life lesson and move on, hopefully better able to avoid people like that in the future.
(FYI, in case it's still unclear: 'people like that'
does not equal Americans, as a whole, but very well
could equal other 'Anglo Saxons from the Shires.')
(Also, FYI: 'Anglo Saxon from the Shires' just sounds like 'hobbit.' We're all picturing you as short & round, with large, hairy, bare feet. And probably laughing at you.)
(Am I the only one now picturing Nick Griffin as a hobbit? It totally fits.)
(Not Nigel, though. I see him as more of an orc.)