Sorry, I forgot to reply to your questions about the sponsor letter.
I'm going to tackle the sponsor letter next. What should that include? Do I need to mention my finances, accomodation and my marital status (divorced) in this? I know I have to talk about our relationship a bit.
Yes, your letter is your confirmation of sponsorship for the application and so you need to state how you meet each of the requirements to be able to sponsor your husband's visa.
It should be addressed to the Entry Clearance Officer and include:
- your ability to sponsor the visa (i.e. UK citizen born and raised)
- your current employment situation and annual income, stating the financial category you are applying under
- where you will live together in the UK
- a short description of how you met, when you married and why you have decided to make your life together in the UK
- a list of the documents you, as the sponsor, are including to support what you've stated in the letter
Should I refer to pictures and proof of flights etc when describing how we've visited back and forth etc? For example I went to his brother's bar mitzvah when I was over in Feb and met his grandmother for the first time, there is a group photo of us all so I thought it might make sense to say see picture 4 for example?
Only mention it in passing in the letter, no more than a short sentence (i.e. 'I have visited him in the US A times in B amount of time and he has visited me in the UK X times in Y amount of time').
We tend to talk via facetime and whatsapp. I have been screenshotting my call log on facetime since Oct last year so have that and then have some emails and have the email copy of our entire whatsapp chat which is over 11,000 messages. How much do I need to provide? Should I blank out the actual messages?
No more than a couple of sheets of paper and no actual messages.
You just need a list of dates and times covering your relationship - if you can filter the call log so you only show a couple per week or per month, that's great, otherwise, take just a handful of screenshots, maybe one per every couple of months.
For emails, just select a range of emails covering your entire relationship, showing date, sender and subject line and screenshot them all on one page if you can. If not, then like above, just take a handful of screenshots covering the relationship and paste them onto a couple of pages.
It emails it to you as a notebook file and has the date and time and then says either his name or mine (just first names) and then our message. Will this be ok? Will it look dodgy as it's just a notebook file. Surely no one would doctor 11,000 messages in the pursuit of a sham marriage?! I could screen shot some too.
I would screenshot rather than just print a Notebook file.
But whatever you do, DO NOT send 11,000 messages! Maybe a selection of about 50 covering the whole relationship, on a couple of sheets of paper.
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So for relationship evidence you need:
- marriage certificate
- 1 or 2 photos of the two of you
- boarding passes from trips to see each other
- letters/cards sent to each other, if you have any
- a couple of sheets of paper showing emails/Facetime calls (maybe 2 sheets per source) etc.
Remember you will need to send photocopies of everything you want returning, so you don't want to be sending reams of paper - ideally your entire application package should fit into a large padded envelope, no more than about an inch or so thick and a couple of pounds in weight.